would you trust a bartender as your mate? if you were a 26 year old female and he is 28 male, would you trust him considering he meets women everynite?
2006-11-14 06:36:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
depends...did he meet you in the bar?
2006-11-14 06:38:26 · answer #1 · answered by theinfamousjae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the bartender LOL. I use to have a friend that was a bartender and he was male of course. He was the most family oriented, sweetest man you would ever meet. Too bad I was only 19 and he was almost 30 at the time or I might have tried to snatch him up myself LOL. He had a little girl but he was divorced and he recently got married but every women he ever dated while we were still working together and hanging out he treated like gold. You can't stereotype people because of their profession. Only their attitude towards people and life will tell what they are really worth.
2006-11-14 14:40:43 · answer #2 · answered by April C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend is a bartender and he is the most trustworthy guy that I've ever met in my entire life. It depends on the person. You cannot judge someone because they meet people all of the time. If you think there's a problem with it perhaps it's because you don't trust him.
2006-11-14 14:39:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well honestly I don't think that you should judge the guy by his job unless he was a stripper of some sort or anything relating to that category as a call girl. I think you should give him a shop but now the ball is in your court because now you have to figure out his personality. If he is a nice guy who would actually be faithful if you are looking to carry things further as long as you get to know him better then yes but if your aren't sure about him because of his character then you know what to do and that is stay the hell away from him. Don't judge him by his job but by his personality and as I always say everyone has faults but its if you the spouse can live with it. Good luck and be very careful of who you choose in this life because its a jungle out there.
2006-11-14 14:43:54 · answer #4 · answered by *Pretty In Pink* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm dating a gynecologist. He sees women and their vagina every single day. BUT he likes ME, because of ME. It's somehow similar. He meets women every night that doesn't mean he dates them, that doesn't mean he'll cheat on his girl. It's their job. We cannot judge them and day "you know, I don't trust you, you're surrounded by women", well but he chose you, YOU, to be his mate, YOU, not another woman. Go for it. Give him a chance. Everybody deserves a chance. Just because he meets women every night that doesn't mean he's a player.
2006-11-14 14:43:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I am a female bartender, and though we meet people every night that doesn't make us non-trustworthy. I look forward to going home to my guy every night, especially after dealing with all the drunk idiots.
2006-11-14 14:39:17 · answer #6 · answered by Kacey 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First off you need to give him a chance but if he's not trustworthy there's no need to being in a relationship if u can't trust ur mate
2006-11-14 14:41:24 · answer #7 · answered by mizz_stunt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't enter into a relationship that will be serious if you cannot trust your mate. So he tends bar....reverse the role....would he trust you if you were a bartender or waitress?
2006-11-14 14:40:02 · answer #8 · answered by ne_patriots2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As for now you have no reason not to trust him. Give him a chance. If your a pretty girl should he trust you??? You could have many guys!!!
2006-11-14 14:38:58 · answer #9 · answered by angelaw86 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will not trust him because as you said that he will meet every night a woman and maybe he will fall in her love and leave you because of her
2006-11-14 14:40:44 · answer #10 · answered by nany 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he love you why not he is human too and he may want just one single woman in his life, and what makes you think, that men who do not meet women at their place of work can not be flirts too
2006-11-14 14:42:20 · answer #11 · answered by cluelesskat maria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋