so i am like too serious about sex, how do i feel comfortable abotu trying new positions. it always seems so arkward and embarrasing, most of the time i just want to relax and for him to be incontrol. but he nevers does much different
2006-11-14 06:33:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go out and have a few drinks together you will both be at ease with trying new things. After that you've tried it already so it should be easier.
2006-11-14 06:37:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may think that you are too shy to try something different. Talk to him about it. Tell him that you feel akward, but you'd like to try some new things. Have a relaxing dinner and maybe a glass of wine to help you loosen up. Then, just see what happens. If you're with someone you love and trust, there is no reason to feel embarrassed.
2006-11-14 06:43:30 · answer #2 · answered by Jan S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably doesn't do anything different because you seem content with your usual. Tell him what you want. Explore. Don't be embarrassed. You're having sex. What's to be embarrassed about? You both might discover something new. Communicate with your partner. Don't fall into a humdrum routine. Sex is beautiful and exciting. Go for it.
2006-11-14 06:42:59 · answer #3 · answered by sxyalmond 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him he is not a mind reader and probably thinks you like it the way it is so he doesnt dare try anything different. You will learn over time.
2006-11-14 06:36:15 · answer #4 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try being on top your in control and get what you want out it and get to work it in the way you want. new positions are good it gives you and your partner a chance to see what each likes and which ones are the best for satisfaction.
2006-11-14 06:36:08 · answer #5 · answered by 4mika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try watching porn films to stimulate your mind,and to give you an idea about sex position that best fit your personality,,Maybe you could try to drink an alcoholic bevarages to give you the urge to try different position,,Monotonous and regular sex position could be very boring,,so i recommend you to try different and passionate love making position,,if you could satisfy your lover in bed,,you could easily dominate him,,its in the performance baby
2006-11-14 06:40:47 · answer #6 · answered by Diet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to communicate your needs but not during, maybe when ur on the phone with him or watching TV, tell him what has been on your mind recently.. if he doesn't get it then dump him!! he is just gonna bore you and u will cheat on him anyway!!
2006-11-14 07:09:29 · answer #7 · answered by stewiegrif27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check out some new karma sutra moves. You'll both enjoy them...promise!!
2006-11-14 06:37:18 · answer #8 · answered by imasooite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you want him in control
tell him your every desire
then
tell him if he doesn't start doing it like you like it you're goint to get some toys and he'll get none
but be nice and sexy about it so he doesn't get the wrong impression
2006-11-14 06:46:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time you're doing it, show him what you'd like to try next. I don't think he's mind! Have fun:)
2006-11-14 06:36:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋