being a good looking popular guy would you consider dating a larger girl if she had the right personality?
2006-11-14 06:20:41 · 40 answers · asked by pops 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First priority is if she's maintaining the dignity and decency. Secondly she would have to be of the right personality. And then I'd look out if the looks are in order. And if the first two conditions are met very well then the third is not very important.
2006-11-14 06:31:13 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Within certain limits, being "proportional" (i.e., not flabby or bony) is more important than size to me. At some point, if differences in height or weight are too extreme, the picture of a couple is so comical that it can become a distraction. But there's so much variation in what men want, generalizing will miss the whole picture. Even a "perfect" match on personality can't be overcome if the physical attraction isn't there, but there's no guarantee that a particular man is bothered by size anyway. A thinner version of this person shows up, it turns out he's attracted to redheads. Or women who wear glasses, or walk a certain way, or remind him of Mom! The heart wants what the heart wants ...
Personally, I find women to be far more critical then men when evaluating the attractiveness of another woman.
2006-11-15 09:59:23 · answer #2 · answered by mizerock 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was always considered merely average or "upper-range average" in my looks and was only popular insofar as I had 5 good friends and hundreds of morons who called themselves such, but from the perpective of THAT guy I'd postulate that it doesn't matter entirely what she looks like if she has many other redeeming qualities, but if she's extremely large it will matter, yes. I can befriend a girl I would consider obese, but I could never date her as I am just not biologically prone to that sort of thing and the relationship would be unhealthy from the start.
If you want me to answer your question from the perspective of a guy who's got lots of experience with good-looking and very "popular" men, I would say, unfortunately, no, it doesn't matter your personality in the least to most individuals to whom I assume you're referring because those people are extremely shallow and I hate to be the harbinger of THAT kind of news (and of a culture warrior), but that's the truth.
2006-11-14 06:27:41 · answer #3 · answered by Strawberry Field 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
evryone has their own preferences but at the end of the day they will fall in love with the whole of you...not just looks. personality is much more important.
there could be a completely stunning girl but she might be the biggest ***** on earth, and have an alround crappy personality (i am not sayin that stunning poeple are all like this)
and on the other hand there could be someone who is a little larger but has the best personality ever!
personality comes before looks
2006-11-14 06:27:14 · answer #4 · answered by Sazi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys yes it dose matter. I'm a big girl and i know how it is i have a really hard time finding guys to date me cause I'm big. most men don't like girls that are big and its hard, but then there are guys out there that find a big girl really attractive if u have a nice personality than is should not matter. to me its not whats on the outside its whats in the heart.
hope my advice helped good luck with finding a guy that will like u for who u are
love maggie.
2006-11-14 06:26:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all men. As much as they hate to admit it sometimes, they do want someone who is compatible with them and has the right personality. Shallow people only base things on looks or sizes.
2006-11-14 06:25:50 · answer #6 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not a girls size so much as how she carries herself that makes her more attractive.
so yes looks are not(contrary to popular belief) more important than personality
ohh lord i dated a really pretty girl once which was nice but she was dumber than a bag of hammers to the point were the conversation wasn't so good. i couldn't take it
2006-11-14 06:29:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most men who think it is important to be popular would not. Going out with a big girl would make them unpopular. Now if he didn't care about what others thought about him, it would be a different story.
2006-11-14 06:23:25 · answer #8 · answered by Existentialist_Guru 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Of course, why not... to say the truth, most boys are idiots and they care only for the appearance... But apart from the immature boys, there are also these who appreciate the personality and the caracter...
2006-11-14 06:28:53 · answer #9 · answered by venus_ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Looks come and go. Personality is what matters in the long run.
2006-11-14 06:22:37 · answer #10 · answered by tipper 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋