Me and my ex always talk right after we broke up he had left me for a girl who was 4yrs older then him but while he was with her we was havin sex all the time and now that i broke them up its been 6months and we have not gone back out but we been havin sex evertime we see each other and we tell each other "I Love You" but we are not togetter we love each other
2006-11-14 06:14:48 · 27 answers · asked by Princess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yea u are going back as a rebound for each other.. im doing it myself.. I miss mine like crazy, but we arent together for several reasons, but when we see each other we have sex and its always better everytime!!! Wish i could give u better advise,but i guess u can say i need the advice myself.. good luck to u
2006-11-14 06:17:58 · answer #1 · answered by blue eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's your "friend with benefits" but you're attached to him. If he tried to start a new relationship with a new girl right now......how would you feel? Betrayed? Definantly not happy about it, i'm sure. If it works for the two of you, then whatever, go with it. My "buddy" dated other people and I had a boyfriend..... didn't care, we were friends before sex, we were friends during, and we are still friends, but we stopped sleeping together a long time ago and I would never cheat on my husband....cheating is wrong and I'm a hypocrate, but I don't do it anymore, I would never hurt the one that I love.
If it's not going to "work out" between the two of you, then you both should move on and give each other a chance to live a monogmous life with other people! Hate it, but it's the truth, hon!
2006-11-14 14:32:21 · answer #2 · answered by Krissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could just be afraid of a commitement. He likes all the good stuff of a relationship but doesn't want the title of one. Just talk to him and find out where his head is at. If you want to get back together with him, let him know. But you shouldn't continue having sex with him. Feelings are going to get in the way and someone will end up getting hurt.
2006-11-14 14:18:15 · answer #3 · answered by imasooite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like you are both obsessed with having sex with one another..yet dont want to be in a relationship together so you can have your cake and eat it too, to put it nicely..
This is a doomed type of relationship that will never work out for the best..
You might want to just drop each other for good and go out and find someone new, so you can disover what a real love relationship is all about..
Good Luck
2006-11-14 14:19:48 · answer #4 · answered by The Chesire Cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not using each other. You are just fulfilling his desire to have sex. Enjoy it while you can. I think they call it friends with benefits. IF you want to see how he feels start seeing somebody else. If he is jealous then maybe you two should work things out. Otherwise, your just Fukbuddies.
2006-11-14 14:19:46 · answer #5 · answered by sofacue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if you are using him - but it certainly sounds like you are getting used.
This sounds like a toxic relationship - you aren't going out, but you're fooling around, right? What do YOU want out of life? I don't know what your answer is, but I know this wouldn't be it.
You need to get this man out of your life so you can move on and find someone who will want to do more than sex you. You deserve better (I don't care how good the sex is, you deserve MORE than that!)
Get rid of him and move on - you will be happier for it.
2006-11-14 14:18:39 · answer #6 · answered by tigglys 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You probably just both feel comfortable having sex with each other because that's one thing you do well together. It's better than having sex with strangers. I'd say rock on little momma!
2006-11-14 14:16:23 · answer #7 · answered by SheRa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are sticking with what's familiar...been there done that. Just be careful to guard your heart. Because with all the I Love You's..what is going to happen when he finds someone else to love and have sex with?
2006-11-14 14:18:31 · answer #8 · answered by mothersister_3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be evil like most girls are...go out on a few dates with another guy. Your ex will either decided he wants you or that he doesn't. Either way, he will have to choose, so pick someone that he doesn't like but someone that you could be happy with. Granted it is using another person, but yo will get your answer.
2006-11-14 14:18:01 · answer #9 · answered by Jon C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie i had the SAME problem....except my guy didnt even like me....i guess it depends alot on whether you want a relationship or he wants a relationship....if neither one of you do then i guess it could be called "using" each other. if yall really love each other then why arent yall together....make sure he feels the same way....love is easier said than done
2006-11-14 14:18:08 · answer #10 · answered by Taylor Leigh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋