This guy that I've had a relationship with for over a year, just recently had to move back to his home town because of a job but still wants to keep in touch with me. He also said if I ever needed someone to talk to, that I can call him. We had our troubles being able to reveal our problems, which he was starting to tell me his before he left. We bascially are starting to trust each other. Anyway, I also want advice from him because he majored in sports medicine. But would this be something I should reveal to him? Especially if we want to make things work? What if he thinks different of me?
2006-11-14 06:00:40 · 12 answers · asked by feisty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I haven't talked with a doctor, but I've been addicted for awhile, ever since I used to model.
2006-11-14 06:09:59 · update #1
Trust is so important for so many reasons. If you really like this guy then trust him with your heart to know that he is not going to leave you if you tell him the truth about your diet pill problem. If he feels the same about you then he will help you thru it and want to be there for you. I pray that it works out for the two of you and if you are honest with him then I know that it will be.
2006-11-14 06:19:52 · answer #1 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would he think different of you? As someone who majors in sports medicine, I am sure he recognizes the whole "IMAGE" issue in America. Everyone has to be perfect, but no one has the time. That is how athletes strain themselves by trying to do too much and why women take diet pills.
Talk to him, get advise, that is what a relationship is.
My suggestion:
Revel to him that you have been on the pills (I am assuming because of whatever you weigh). It obvious you are unsure about the pills, or you wouldn't have a hard time admitting you take them, so tell him they aren't working OR that they aren't giving you the desired results. Then tell him you want to quit taking them or keep taking them BUT BEGIN AN EXERCISES REGIMENT THAT HE COMES UP WITH (he should love that you are asking for his help like this). Describe your desired results and stick with what he tells you.
ALSO if he is concerned about the pills, listen to his advise or come up with evidence before you talk that they aren't so bad.
Good Luck!
2006-11-14 14:09:01 · answer #2 · answered by sucha_jewel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
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2006-11-15 13:52:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should because if you trust him, what's so diffrent about this and plus if you want to make things work you have to tell him very important stuff not keep it from him, maybe he can help you and if he does I guessing that you would be happier because your not keeping things from him like this important thing. You know whatt ever happens contact me at kassasy@gmail.com okay.
Bye
2006-11-14 14:06:54 · answer #4 · answered by squeeks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would tell him that you would like to build trust & foundation in your relationship and you have something you need to share with him before you can move forward.
He should be able to help you, I doubt he will think any less of you at all.
2006-11-14 14:03:38 · answer #5 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure, if he's starting to be honest with you, then telling him your little secret could help cement the bond of trust between yourselves. Have you talked to a doctor about this problem you have?
2006-11-14 14:03:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you really trust him, you should talk with him...he probably loves you enough to not say anything, and since he is in medicine, it would be a good idea. With his support maybe you can stop this bad habit, good luck ^_^
2006-11-14 14:05:23 · answer #7 · answered by saraikyon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is ALWAYS the best policy. If he cares about you the way I'm led to believe then you'll have the emotional support you need.
2006-11-14 14:04:16 · answer #8 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are doing it as a ploy to get his attention and have him move back, then dont do it.
actually, i wouldnt do it at all. he will see you in a bad light. go talk to a doctor about it. you probably need the medical help anyway.
2006-11-14 14:03:10 · answer #9 · answered by kdjags 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, do those even work? If not, why use them? But you should tell him; maybe he can help you stop.
2006-11-14 14:04:45 · answer #10 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋