I live with my boyfriend and have recently discovered that he goes through my stuff, reads private documents on my computer etc... why does he do it? Should I confront him?
2006-11-14 05:56:41 · 7 answers · asked by HappyKat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because he is a snoop and is nosy or he doesn't trust you and is trying to find incriminating evidence.
2006-11-14 05:59:35 · answer #1 · answered by devildollbaby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry. it's the habit of every guy in this world. they feel insecure and that's their way of making it sure that there isn't anybody else in ur life. if and when u gonna confront him about this he will deny it and deny it vehemently and in the end u will end up in a fight bcoz he won't admit it or give lame excuses for it. it may lead to the break up and trust me, this will happen again when u get into relationship with any other guy.
on the other way why don't u think how much he loves you that he fears loosing you so much that he takes such immoral steps, even though he is aware that what he is doing is wrong, still he goes for it
the best way is to make him secure about ur love for him by expressing it. when he will feel secure then u can give him hints that there may be some personal things that u don't want to be seen even by ur loved ones. i think he will be more understanding then and will take the point. why to spoil a gud relationship over a petty cause.
2006-11-14 14:08:30 · answer #2 · answered by dentist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though he has some trust issues. Have you cheated on him, or given him reasons to doubt your fidelity or not to trust you? If that is not the case, then my guess would be insecurity on his part, or maybe he is doing stuff that he knows is wrong, and since he is doing it, he thinks you are doing the same thing. As far as confronting him goes, I think you should, but I think you should do it in a good way, not go running at him "kicking and screaming" but just explain you know he is doing it and would like to know why.
2006-11-14 14:04:46 · answer #3 · answered by rcr1221 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
To me it sounds like your boy friend does not trust you! He might say he does, But only to an extent! That i can promise you! He is looking for a reason not to trust you, Maybe he is just too scared to trust you!
I think you should confront him, But be very calm about it, Do not start up a heated arguement as that may interfere with future opportunities.
Give Him A Reason To Trust You!!!
2006-11-14 14:02:26 · answer #4 · answered by krazy_k006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does it cuz hes jealous and insecure.. but im sure you already knew that. Yes, confront him. What are you waiting for?
2006-11-14 13:59:46 · answer #5 · answered by Zoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One reason.
Because he is curious.
2006-11-14 14:02:17 · answer #6 · answered by gamermic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has no trust, you have to make him trust you!
2006-11-14 14:00:56 · answer #7 · answered by --Br0oklYn-- 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋