i really can't stand the clothes he wears!he has no style!
i know it sounds shallow but it's really repelling me!but yet he's so sweet and we have a connection and he's quite cute!
should i tell him if we go any further?or should i tell him right now?
should i try to change him?
2006-11-14 05:53:57 · 12 answers · asked by lola_blue 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It shouldnt be too hard to get him out of those clothes
2006-11-14 05:58:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You cant change him because you like him the way he is... But you can help him to have a new (better) style... without showing him that you try to change him and you dont accept him. Try to go shopping together and choose his clothes or as a present in any occasions try to buy him clothes and you will see that he'll improve a lot! And you dont need to hurry! The less he understands, the better he will become...
2006-11-14 06:23:49 · answer #2 · answered by venus_ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is he? if hes like 14 or 15 wait until he grows up he will develop a sense of style
2006-11-14 06:00:35 · answer #3 · answered by flonkas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like him as a person it shouldn't matter what he wears. Maybe though he just has no fashion sense...so once you start dating seriously you can start to help him pick out clothes and it will get better. If he likes how he dresses, don't try to change him......
2006-11-14 05:56:56 · answer #4 · answered by josie775 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
know how you feel. there's this guy in my biology class that really likes me, but he dresses so wierd. of course, i think it IS the style these days. you know the look; baggy, ripped jeans, striped boxers that stick out a little too far, tight t-shirt... the only thing i like about his appearance is his hair. it's kinda cool. and he is nice. but i agree, that if he dressed better, it wouldn't turn me off so bad! don't try to change him. go out with him, and he'll see by the way you dress how you think he should dress.
Good luck!
2006-11-14 06:03:15 · answer #5 · answered by Renee Gibson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You CAN'T change anybody but yourself. If it's his style that bothers you and you can't get over it, then move on. Don't worry about him because there's lots of girls that don't care if he dresses like a dork.
I'm not judging you...I have my own weird things that repelled me from perfectly good guys. One of them is so stupid: I don't like connected earlobes, my man has to have earlobes! So, don't feel too bad about it.
2006-11-14 05:59:08 · answer #6 · answered by Chellebelle78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!! If you really like him it shouldn't matter! He doesn't need a girl telling him what to wear! If he is wearing those cloths, it is b/c that's his style and what he likes! If he wanted to dress like you he would!
2006-11-14 05:56:37 · answer #7 · answered by --Br0oklYn-- 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you like the guy accept him for him self rather than the clothes he wears, but if it still bothers you you can buy him something you like and give it to him as a gift and you can in no offensive manner, gently tell him the clothes you bought look good on him and that would sort of boost his image
2006-11-14 06:00:43 · answer #8 · answered by cluelesskat maria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people either have a VERY different style or NO sense of style.
How about you showing him what would be good so that he can put together his own outfits?
2006-11-14 05:57:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does it matter how he dresses. Stop being so shallow
2006-11-14 05:56:08 · answer #10 · answered by Alissa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋