Well me and my EX are talking again he tells me that he still loves me and I still love him with all my HEART... and would love to be with him but he acts like all he wants is sex what to do????
2006-11-14 05:53:06 · 15 answers · asked by namenotknown 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So you broke up. Then he started missing you and wanted to get back together. Now he wants allot of it, and you're not sure if he just wants it or really cares about you. Is that about it?
Well, one way to tell is to give him as much as he can handle, and then see how he reacts. Once he's satisfied, and he still wants to be around you, then it's easy to tell he really cares about you. Otherwise, he's doing what guys refer to as a 'booty call.'
And if the idea of giving him allot just doesn't make you comfortable, then that's your voice of reason trying to shout through the fog of love, that you already know he's just making a booty call and doesn't really care about you. Trust your instincts. There was a reason why you two broke up in the first place. ;)
2006-11-14 05:59:03 · answer #1 · answered by TechnoRat60 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what josie775 said sounds good...
I just got back with my ex after being apart for a year. we both said we wanted to move slowly. we started hanging out again in august and things are still going really good.
We take it one step at a time. Do remember why you guys broke up before. And reasons why you would disagree and argue . I do that and it helps me when I see myself doing things I used to do that helped us to break up in the first place.
If keith s is right you will be able to tell by his response to your lets take things slow statement.
Good Luck :)
2006-11-14 14:07:09 · answer #2 · answered by anya_8884 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give him sex, I mean if you feel wrong about it, tell him you wanna take things slow and see if there is enough love to build on again, and if not giving him anymore sex keeps him at a distance then girl! you know the truth...
2006-11-14 13:55:59 · answer #3 · answered by nissdonna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that if he loves you then ask what he wants to do about it. If all he wants is sex and no relationship then tell him no you can't talk to him anymore.
It's hard - but unless he's going to go through with the words he says to you then you need to get over him.
2006-11-14 14:02:00 · answer #4 · answered by Niko 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it. if all he really wants is sex then hes not worth it. u can still be friends but if all he wants is sex then dont go out with him again. Always remember y u left him in the first place. if he hasnt changed since then hes not worth it.
2006-11-14 13:56:23 · answer #5 · answered by Fire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a reason why you guys are Ex. Keeping that in mind........you should have enough respect for your self to let him walk on! If you really need the sex, just buy a real good "toy".
Move on girl, good luck!
2006-11-14 13:58:48 · answer #6 · answered by love_life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's taking advantage of you.....he's using love to play with you and your emotions.All he wants is sex.......and he might love you,but he needs sex to bring that feeling to surface.I've been in that situation before.I would break up with my boyfriend(who i loved),and then he would come over so we could "talk" and we'd end up having sex,and I'd feel soooo much love for him,and he'd feel soooo much love for me,that we'd get back together....and nothing was resolved with our problems.We just felt that we loved each other,so we should be together.....it never works!!!!He's not going to change....you'll find love again,your young,it'll all work out.
2006-11-14 14:22:27 · answer #7 · answered by Shana T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that he is only using you for sex because if he really loved you he would want to do other stuff besides that. I can give you the advice to not give him any sex and THEN see if he sticks around. Hope you can do it.
2006-11-14 13:59:03 · answer #8 · answered by DGabbys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have answered a hundred other questions like this. You are worth more than that and if he wants nothing more than sex, then he is using you. He does not love you.
2006-11-14 13:56:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get together with him, don't have sex! if he really loves you, he will wait. but you need to know ( i've done bunches of research on this lol) that guy's see sex as a form of love more than women do. many guys can't actally feel totaly in love with somone if they don't want to have sex with them. to a guy, not wanting to have sex with them is one of the biggest forms of rejection. he thinks " i want her soo bad, why doesn't she want to do it with me...... " (sad face) maby you can not actually have intercouse, you know do other things hands, (maby mouth) but don't do it as often as you did in the past. also, does he do sweet things for you??? does he actually do things to show he cares??? or does he just tell you that he does. anyone can say " i love you" but if you truley feel it, you show it, and you show it often. I hope this helps you out! good luck!
-TJ
oh i forgot.. did he mess around with other people while you were broken up???? you need to find this out. if he did, then its probably not worth getting back together with him.
2006-11-14 13:59:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋