well im a very shy person and i dont know how to talk to men. I'm 18 and im still a virgin. Im just not ready to have sex and thats why i think i dont have a man. Sometimes i think im into girls because i feel like no man wants me so if a man doesn't want me than maybe a female does. I mean im attracted to them. What should i do? please help!!!
2006-11-14 05:16:24 · 8 answers · asked by *~Pretty Smile~* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-11-14 05:21:24 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. BIG 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, and this is coming from a guy, there is not a DAMN thing wrong with being a virgin. In fact I applaud you on your convictions to stay a virgin in a day and age when 12 year old's are having babies.
If you really want meet a nice guy that will love and appreciate you for you, try eHarmony. I know what I'm talking about since, when I was ready to stop catting around and find a good woman to share my life with, I used eHarmony.
Bear in mind though that you are still only 18, you're a pup. Get your education, maybe go explore the world and enjoy being young. Stop worrying about whether or not YOU "putting out" is whats keeping you single. You have a whole life waiting for you, just enjoy it, and when it's the right time, you'll know it.
And remeber, most guys in your age bracket are a bunch of hormonally driven, egomaniacal, womanizing dumb ***'s. So you're really not missing out on anything by not dating for a while.
Good luck
2006-11-14 16:15:07 · answer #2 · answered by gzam415 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay first, NO man is worth your time if he just wants to get you in the sack. If you aren't ready to have sex, that is your decision. And a good one. :) Wait til you are ready. If you're attracted to women as well as men you may be bisexual. Don't feel though that just because you don't have a boyfriend, you are a lesbian. Maybe you're bi. It's all good.
Good luck!
2006-11-14 13:22:01 · answer #3 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, it's OKAY to still be a virgin at the age of 18! if you are not ready, you are not ready. it definitely has NOTHING to do with not having a man! you have be confident about yourself in order to attract men.
2006-11-14 13:21:07 · answer #4 · answered by applec19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about it...as long as you stay female..sooner or later a male will notice.
Good thing is, the fewer that notice means the easier it will be to pick a good one....picking one good one out of 5 is easier than picking one good one out of 100.
Stay they way you are and take your time.
2006-11-14 13:19:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get yourself some implants and start wearing your thongs so they hang out your hip huggers.then you dont have to worry about being shy.
2006-11-14 13:25:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself and keep smiling.
2006-11-14 13:19:15 · answer #7 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ware things that you wouldn't usaly ware and go pole dnaceing!!!!
2006-11-14 13:19:51 · answer #8 · answered by jojo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋