well i've been dating this wonderful guy for about 9 monthes now and we're starting to get more sexually active.I was wondering, do you think it'll be ok if i give my boyfriend oral ... or will i regret doing it.
its not that im scared to do it its just i dont want him to think im miss trick if you know what i mean ... i just want some guys opinion or some girl that was in the same boat that im in now to give me their point of view.. PLEASE HELP!
2006-11-14 05:14:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd say do it...
i'm already thinking of giving my g/f oral.. and we have only been together for 5 months... lol.. but hey.. to be honest.. I really want to do that for her.. and you know.. i'm not going to regret it.. because all that I do.. I do it because I want to.. and not because I want to make my g/f feel good (actually yes... lol), but you know what I mean..
now... if you do give oral to your b/f... are you doing it because you want him to give you oral as well?...
in my case... I just want to do that.. because, I feel the further we go in a relationship.. the closer I feel to her.. that's all...
2006-11-14 05:21:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?????
If you're still in school...then you need to concentrate on school and not on things like this.
What do you mean by "we're starting to get more sexually active"? Are you going under the clothes?
I think you need to think about where this may be going. If you two start experimenting with things like this, then you need to make sure you understand about protecting yourself against STD's and pregnancy.
About the whether or not to do this with your bf......Do ONLY what you're comfortable with!!! DO NOT do it unless you feel completely comfortable with the situation. Also, only do things that you wouldn't be embarassed to admit to, because things have a way of getting out there when you're still young.
2006-11-14 05:22:57 · answer #2 · answered by Chellebelle78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not there are many women who do not give oral unless they are in love with their partner, and being that you have been dating him for this length of time you too probably feel love for him. If he hasn't hinted to you that he would like that done and you feel he will think bad of you, be open and honest tell him that you would like to do that to him and if you truely do have a relationship that sits on a foundation built with honesty and trust then he will be thrilled, if there is already doubts in him about you and other problems this may only worsen things, only you know what type of relationship you have, I say to be honest...
2006-11-14 05:20:55 · answer #3 · answered by nissdonna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way I look at it is, oral sex is the ultimate sacrifice. I know some girls enjoy, but let me tell you, I am not one of them!! Most of the girls I have talk to have told me they do not enjoy it either. Therefore, you get nothing out of it. It is all for him. It's a way of expressing how you feel about him, I mean, you get nothing out of it. So, if you care about him enough to do it, then you should. I mean, also take your age into consideration. Any guy that would think you are a whore for doing that isn't worth it. :)
2006-11-14 05:24:47 · answer #4 · answered by Modern_Monroe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you have been going out for 9 months, it's pretty sure that he likes you and will not think of you as "miss trick". Do what comes naturally to you......
2006-11-14 05:17:05 · answer #5 · answered by Scotty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How he treats you afterwards is nothing that can be predicted - regret normally lies on the shoulders of the doer so if you for one instance think you may regret doing it, don't. Give it a little more time.
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2006-11-14 05:17:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you want to do it, then do it. Do not do it because you feel coerced. On the other hand, I doubt, if he likes you as much as you say, that he will think bad of you if you do it. He will probably be all gaga over you if you do it.
2006-11-14 05:19:36 · answer #7 · answered by Axeman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do anything you don't feel comfortable doing..
thats all i have to say.. if you think you feel comfortable enough to go and do it (as long as you are of legal age for wherever you are for such activities) ..
but dont' do it just to make him happy.. as thats never a good idea
2006-11-14 05:21:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are he wont think that if you've been together that long. If you still feel unsure ask him to do it to you as well.
2006-11-14 05:16:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?
If you are under the age of 17, please do not do it. You think he is the one right now but he is not. So what if he thinks your a tease! It is better than being know as the d*ck sucker.
2006-11-14 05:18:47 · answer #10 · answered by jules_xcess 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋