I have a friend that thinks her boyfriend is cheating on her and I don't know what to tell her. What do u think I should tell her? Thanks for all answers I can get.
2006-11-14 05:12:47 · 13 answers · asked by Kim R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he starts acting skittish, not returning phone calls, lack of sex, overall mean, and not around. if he is cheating, tell her to DUMP HIM.
2006-11-14 05:18:26 · answer #1 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know he is cheating, you have a responsibility to your friend to tell her. Just make sure you are 100% correct if you do tell her. If you are wrong, and just guessing he is cheating and you tell her he is, and turn out to be wrong she will hate you forever.
2006-11-14 13:16:39 · answer #2 · answered by rcr1221 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he doesn't answer his cell/ignores the calls/text messages. When he starts to be home later and later from work. Keep an eye on personal hygiene usually a man will increase his shower usage. He will also dress nicer then usual. Even if he wears suits he will add things. Trust me.
2006-11-14 13:22:24 · answer #3 · answered by Stick'em in the Trunk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off let me apologize for us men.
Let me be as straight as i can be, "men are pigs"
most will cheat if any opportunity arises.
The best way for your friend to know is to ask her questions like:
Is he as attentive as he has been in the past?
Does he have unexpected "emergencies" that he has to attend?
Is he evasive to any question about what he's been doing?
if u ask her she might think a little about past conversations allowing her to see if there are any clues.
Good Luck
2006-11-14 13:20:54 · answer #4 · answered by jawtar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going through this myself.
*Does he spend lots of nights away from you?
*Does his love feel transparent?
*Does he hide his cell phone bill/credit card bill/bank statements?
*Has your sex life declined?
If she feels that her boyfriend is cheating in her heart then the chances are he is.
She does not need to catch him in the act to make her feel right, but if she wants to tell her that the cell phone is the best way to find out.
I found out from one of his text messages.
2006-11-14 13:28:07 · answer #5 · answered by kehorn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you asked him this morning when you woke up next to him and he told you that he wasn't cheating on your friend...just improving his techniques so that she will be more satisfied.
2006-11-14 13:15:01 · answer #6 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she thinks he's cheating, he probably is. Just be there if she needs you, but keep the advice to your self.....
2006-11-14 13:17:44 · answer #7 · answered by P-Nut 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he starts going threw her things and accusing her of doing things and she's completely innocent my momma told me when a man accuse you of cheating then that means that he's cheating.
2006-11-14 13:17:13 · answer #8 · answered by Mz.Tweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if she has to ask herself if he is, if she questions his faithfulness, then obviously there is a problem... One of the top most important things in a relationship is trust, and if she doesn't have that, then she's wasting her time
2006-11-14 13:15:06 · answer #9 · answered by lily 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he slips and calls you by the other woman's name.
Better be prepared to prove it, cause if you're wrong...that friendship is history.
2006-11-14 13:15:41 · answer #10 · answered by Mikey ~ The Defender of Myrth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋