do you find anything wrong with being insecure i think it's our way of showing how much we love our mate and that were always gona be down for them but it's just gona be us two because we demand a certain amout of attention and we refuse to share it with it with another person. But thats my personal opinion whats your?
2006-11-14 05:07:56 · 6 answers · asked by Mz.Tweety 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when two are this way its a lot of more love and understanding Scared to know what others has been put through to make a person to become very insecure.
2006-11-14 05:26:18 · answer #1 · answered by weezybaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all have our insecurities we aren't perfect...but I don't feel that its a good way to show how much we care for someone else. I think being insecure can actually sometime shurt a relationship b/c it is a lack of self esteem. I think that if you are happy in your relationship and your significat other really loves you. They help you forget about those insecurities. But ultimately its up to yourself to know why you feel that way and figure out a way to change it for the better!
2006-11-14 05:18:20 · answer #2 · answered by marshhope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand. I'm completely insecure in my relatonship. It's like I don't trust him to love me. I push him away just to see if he will come back. I dont' like him to be around my friends when I'm not around. In my heart I know he loves me but I need reassurance all the time. However, being this insecure kills me. It's not a good way to live.
2006-11-14 05:18:41 · answer #3 · answered by Elizabeth C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you from my personal experience it almost never lasts forever when you are insecure. You will end up driving the person away because they will feel trapped, and unable to and decide things for themselves. My girl just moved out because of a similar situation, not so much because of insecurity but because she felt trapped and was unable to do things she wanted to do for fear of hurting the boy.
2006-11-14 05:14:29 · answer #4 · answered by rcr1221 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I am reading into your question is that you make insecurity sound like something admirable, it is not. Being insecure is having a lack of self esteem. You do not find self worth in some one else, it comes from within. God bless*
2006-11-14 05:13:23 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't like the idea of letting my significan't other see my insercurites.. i like to have the illusion of confidence and self eestem :)
2006-11-14 05:12:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋