my bf told me yesterday that he has 2 gf, me and some girl named brittany, he said that he didnt want to break up with me or her. he also said that she didnt know he was dating me as well. The really bad thing is that i might be pregnant. Should i stay wit him or break up wit him?
2006-11-14 05:04:18 · 30 answers · asked by Fire 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take it from a man, HES A JERK. If you stay with him he knows that you are whipped and he will do it again and again.
2006-11-14 05:10:58 · answer #1 · answered by smartdagger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the doctor RIGHT NOW!!! and find out if you are pregnant. If you aren't, then good for you and get rid of this loser. If you are, you need to ask yourself:
Do I really want to have a baby with THIS GUY? He's not going to stick around and help you. He's GOING to continue to date other girls. Having a baby is hard enough in the best of circumstances, have an abortion if you're pregnant. It's not fair for a child to be brought into the world under these conditions. This is why you go to the doc right away, because you need to know these things as soon as possible.
Please listen to me!
2006-11-14 13:12:55 · answer #2 · answered by Chellebelle78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, figure out for sure if you are pregnant. Second of all, this guy is a complete nut case. He wants 2 girlfriends at the same time? Even if you are pregnant and keep the child I would not stay in a relationship with him. If you want to keep him in your child's life then be friends with him. Of course, let him know that you are pregnant only when you SURE. If you are not pregnant just leave him...fast...RUN.
2006-11-14 13:10:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all the #1 thing to hate is a cheater and just cause you think your pregnant doesn't make it right that he's cheating on you or that you should stay in the relationship I believe you should just let him go or you should find out if your pregnant or not then if so you tell him and make sure you make it understandable that if your having his child then he can't see other women because no real women likes to share her man but if your not pregnant then you should just cut him loose
2006-11-14 13:10:15 · answer #4 · answered by Nikki2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're kidding me, right? There is no way you should stay with this guy unless you always want to be with a man that is having a relationship with you and other women as well. If you stay with him you will basically be saying it is OK for you to do whatever you want whenever you want. I am sure you do not spend your life as the "number 2" girl with this guy.
2006-11-14 13:07:47 · answer #5 · answered by rcr1221 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
d@nm
do the mature thing and all of you meet put your emotions aside for the moment because there maybe a baby involved and please do not use this probability as ammunition against him
acknowledge that even though he was a jerk to do what he did but he was man enough to tell you and it will be hard but know there are women who have been cheated on but managed to work it out the answer is not always to just walk out
fight for your man girl you never know this may make you guys stronger also tell him to make up his mind and be firm not all emotional
any ho good luck and be wise
God bless xxx-xxx
2006-11-14 13:20:42 · answer #6 · answered by L£X 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First i would tell him that if he doesnt tell her then you're leaving because currently you are the other woman.
second think whether or not you want this man to be the one that you stay with if he can't be loyal to you
third find out for sure if you're pregnant and what you want to do (IE keep or adoption) and talk to him about whether or not you want him in the babies life.
a baby is not a reason to stay with someone, he can be in the babies life without dating you.
good luck
2006-11-14 13:09:29 · answer #7 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BREAK UP! You don't have time and shouldn't be putting time in making an effort to stay with him. If he gets what he wants from you, he will bounce. Those guys are players. Don't let him play around with you like that. Find another guy who will treat you better, and who will be true to you.
2006-11-14 13:05:56 · answer #8 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you need to move on. He oh so casually told you he is seeing someone else, might have gotten you pregnant, and wants to continue to see BOTH of you? You already know the answer to your questions. He's a LOOOOOOSER
2006-11-14 13:05:55 · answer #9 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think of pregnancy as a bad thing, just get out of the situation. You don't need someone like that to be involved in a child's life.
2006-11-14 13:08:38 · answer #10 · answered by inquisitor1125 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with him! If you are pregnant... dont worry so much you can do it on your own. It will be hard but not imposible. If you dont she will get pregnant and you guys will all end up on Jerry Springer.
And I know your way to good for that show.
2006-11-14 13:06:43 · answer #11 · answered by Candace T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋