My boyfriend thinks that I'm cheating but I know that I'm not. His last girlfriend cheated on him with a family member. Could that be the reason, is he just insecure? A guy a used to talk to back in april, and it wasnt even serious we talked for like two weeks back then and that was it, called me out of the blue while my BF was over. I tried telling himwhat was going on but he wont believe me. He thinks that I just want to string him along. Does this mean he may be cheating? What should I do? He is always playing about me having another man and other stuff but he gets mad when I play like that with him. Should I try harder to be there for him or should I just call it quits? I love him more than I have loved anyone before and he say he loves me. But is this stress worht it?
2006-11-14 05:03:57 · 10 answers · asked by Pumpkin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you have to tell him that he cant joke about that kind of thing if you can't or just when he's joking about it just be like. 'oh yeah baby because its not like i love you or anything'
I can tell you from personal experience sometimes it really just is insecurity i'm always paranoid about my boyfriend getting calls when i don't know who it is. I've learned to make myself trust him and he's learning that if he simply tells me who just called or such that it eases my mind.. you both have to work on it.
I was cheated on by my last 3 boyfriends.. it's hard to get over sometimes
2006-11-14 05:15:51 · answer #1 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of you are in a great suspicion mood. I would like to suggest the following. Both of you agree on a holiday for a 3 month period when you both will not meet each other. In an environment of suspicion nothing can be sorted out. No one cheating any one. You both are good-hearted. If you are away for some cool off period I feel you both have a chance to settle your problems.
2006-11-14 05:16:35 · answer #2 · answered by openpsychy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey in case you have already got information he's dishonest ("So i think of my bf is dishonest doing the internet subject I do have information, yet he hides his "cookies" temp data that could hint what you're doing on line.. ") why could you prefer to proceed torturing your self searching for added info? purely kick him to the cut back noone merits to be cheated on. i understand its less complicated reported than carried out with the aid of fact i'm confident you adore him, yet love your self greater. No guy is ever properly worth your tears.
2016-10-03 23:11:12 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could be insecure its something he needs to get over, honestly my curret girlfriend cheated on me with my bestfriend as horrible as it was there are reasons on bothsides that situations arise like that
were still with each other and have a child even before the cheating started i do get insecure in some situations, but i work them out in my head if he loves you like he says he should talk to you about it like an adult and not make your relationship tougher if he dosent talk like an adult then move on.
cheating is a tough one to get over in terms of insecuritys and self esteam.
give him a chance if he dosent step up move on
2006-11-14 05:18:02 · answer #4 · answered by halicon2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really care for him and want this relationship to work, you need to try harder.
I went through the same thing.
It's just your boyfriends own insecurities, because his ex-girlfriend cheated on him.
You need to explain and talk to him that you are NOT your hardest.
Tell him that he doesn't need to bring his past into you guys relationship.
You shouldn't have to suffer for his ex-girlfriends stupidity.
2006-11-14 05:06:35 · answer #5 · answered by twylatimestwo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my own experience. If he keeps the focus on you and what you think he thinks you are doing, then there will be no focus on him and what he is doing. Also, if and when you catch him cheating he can use the excuse that he thought you were.
2006-11-14 05:10:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He feels insecure. Talk to him and let him understand.
2006-11-14 05:06:34 · answer #7 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let him put stress in your life. No one is worth that.
2006-11-14 05:08:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no trust.. maybe he is feeling this way cuz he is cheating on you.
2006-11-14 05:05:15 · answer #9 · answered by Mike W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Myabe your not showing him enough attention....Hmmm?
2006-11-14 05:05:53 · answer #10 · answered by hockeytwn09 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋