well anyway me and my boyfriend broke up i guess about 2 weeks ago, techniciall and about 3 weeks ago we had a fight and i was sayin i donno if thi si sowkrin cuz u dont have time for me. he wouldnt really comprimise and just said he liked bein with his friends this way cuz i wasliving about an hour and a half aaway. we got in that fight and i drive home i guess he took it as were done....ive been callin him crying tryin to get back and he just keeps saying things like i dont feel the same way i dont care when im cryin and tellin him i love him. i think hes tryin to hurt me and just hiding his feelings. does he really mean that crap? he moved way up north i think he was kinda running away for 2 week intervals but says hell cal lme when he comes back we can hang out, but he doesnt wanna worry about me when hes up there. he just kinda says hes done with girls and has been fed arond by them. just basically said everythign i did wrong, whta do i do i cant stop thinkin about him??
2006-11-14 04:56:20 · 9 answers · asked by krista22here 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listen gurl, If u really wanna know the answer to your question, leave him alone for a while .. none of us know exactly what he feels for u after he said ( I don't feel the same ), we're not psychic... but what u said, the guy really needs some space & time to rethink the whole relationship. I believe distance is what caused your fight with him.. & long distant relationships are hard, unless the two love each other soo much that they'd find a way to keep the relationship moving forward. Give the guy time,, u called, u cryed of the phone, u asked him to come back in your life & his reply was (I don't care ) ( I don't feel the same way )... so give it time... occupy yourself with anything useful,,, talk to a close friend or family member, share what u feel with someone u trust, rather that call & cry ... That'z not the solution & tearz never mended anything broken, It only caused more pain to the one who cried. & guyz never rethink a relationship if a gurl cryz, itz alwayz us gurlz who get touched by that & try to fix thingz up with our boyfriends. there are too many reasonz why your relationship headed to where itz at right now,,,, seriouse reasonz... in order to be with someone, u gotta give them plenty of your time.. & obviously, he'z not doing hiz share of that v.important deal. If i were you, I'd ignore him for a sometime & save myself whatz left of my pride, if he doez love you, he'll drive down that 2hr road & say he'z sorry, if he really meant what he said about not feeling the same, then good riddinz!! at least u left with some of your pride. Gurl, you should never let anyone make u beg like this. if anyone forces u to "beg", you're really better off without them ... Love yourslf & Try to live your life without thinking of him, u have to know it'z hiz loss, & if he doezn't come back'a'crawlin', there'z alwayz "better" fish in the sea.
Cheer Up, Nothingz worth your tearz..
2006-11-14 05:26:32 · answer #1 · answered by CupCake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be there done that story. Sorry to break it to you but, its over. Forget about him. Find someone new and don't rush the relationship this time. If your thinking long term you need to let it take time and mature. If not, just keep going how you are. That way you can bounce around from guy to guy for the next 5 to 8 years and keep having you heart broke.
2006-11-14 05:07:49 · answer #2 · answered by Stick'em in the Trunk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I absolutely agree with everyone else..it seems liek you are expecting someone else to make you happy. Girl i have learnt that the hard way myself..you will only be happy when you make yourself happy. And I think part of that is learning how to be on you own. Having fun and doing something that will help you in your future. Learning to love who you are and learing what makes you happy is the key to finding and stayig in a healthy relationship.
Move on until you figure thing s out inside. You don't need someone else to be happy!
2006-11-14 05:04:53 · answer #3 · answered by marshhope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get busy leading a fun, happy life and you'll stop thinking about him. You need to divert your attention to other things, like school (your spelling is horrible) and focus on your own future, not some little boy who makes you cry every 2 weeks.
2006-11-14 04:59:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-22 02:04:54 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go back to school and think about your education. You really need to invest in it and stop worrying about him.
2006-11-14 04:59:47 · answer #6 · answered by favrd1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YA i think that you should still try to talk to him other ways just ignor him he might try to talk ot you!!!
2006-11-14 05:18:08 · answer #7 · answered by jojo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on sister!
2006-11-14 04:59:12 · answer #8 · answered by bam.... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sheesh. Do you talk like you type?
No wonder he can't stand you.
2006-11-14 04:59:03 · answer #9 · answered by bgii_2000 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋