2006-11-14 04:35:22 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
just go out and have a good time. you can have fun and not cheat
2006-11-14 04:37:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you've been committed to him for so long, before going on, write him a letter and let him know that you have an itch that you need to scratch, chances are he'll understand because he would do the same and let it go from there. Men that are in prison are usually very understanding, I had to tell my ex that is serving 9 years that I was pregnant with another man's baby and that I had no intentions of being with him when he got out... I thought he'd be pissed but he totally understood (he was a little disappointed but that's to be expected) and we are still friends and write on a regular basis. It'll all work out. You just have to tell him first and foremost, just out of respect for him and the relationship that you had.
2006-11-14 12:43:05 · answer #2 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long have u been with him.. wait wait hold on if u love the man.. and i mean truley love the man.. let him know u wanna go out.. and do u mean go out with other guys or just get out and see whats in the world.. can u clarify that for me pls.. cause if u wanna see other guys then yes i think thats wrong.. my man is also in prison has been for 11 years now he should be comeing home the 16th of dec....of this year.. so i know what your going through.. so if u ever need anyone to talk to u can email me at ricki20042001@yahoo.com havea great day and keep your head up
2006-11-14 12:40:52 · answer #3 · answered by ricki20042001 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well sorry to hear about that. But you should go out and have fun. You shouldn't be home just waiting around for him to do his time. Girl..just by going out doesn't mean you are going to cheat or anything. If you really love the guy well just waste time it doesn't really have to be at a club or anything. It can be with your friends going to movies and to the mall. It waste precious time and make the best of it.
2006-11-14 13:17:10 · answer #4 · answered by cindy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not your spouse. Go out. Unless you're married, you're free to date others. He may have trouble understanding. After all, you are a connection with the outside world but if he were in your shoes he would likely do the same.
2006-11-14 12:43:18 · answer #5 · answered by meoorr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out! You're wasting precious time by waiting on someone who probably isn't going to make a good partner in the long run.
2006-11-14 12:38:09 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
When my boyfriend was in jail and I sat home (I was only allowed to go to work) and paid all the bills and waited every night for him to call collect, he did not one night (call). It was my birthday. I went out the next day (I was angry and hurt)- he finally got out on a work release and he and his mother came over and threw me out. There's a lesson here for you about boyfriends in jail. They might get out but they also usually get worse. Dump him. Go out and live your life!
2006-11-14 12:48:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go Out!! Have a good time. Just because you go out doesn't mean you are going to cheat.
2006-11-14 15:12:55 · answer #8 · answered by ♥mommy of 4♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with friends. You should also seriously think if this relationship is worth waiting for him to get out. Is he worth it? If not you should meet someone new.
2006-11-14 12:39:26 · answer #9 · answered by gentlgodis 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
move on...geeze why sit around and wait for nothing. Your life ended just because his did...Its not your fault he is where he is. I cannot believe people that get locked up expect you to wait around for them. Move on, you dont want a criminal anyways. Waste of society!
2006-11-14 12:37:33 · answer #10 · answered by jess_n_flip 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go out. If he is in prison you don't need him anyways.
2006-11-14 13:07:52 · answer #11 · answered by Brandi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋