my son love me a lot but now a days he use to cry for all thigs he speaks very loudly hegive me very blunt answer for eg.if u can shout and speak i can also cry and shout at u he is just 4 he does not like colouring he just like to play and watching t.v to get his demand to be fullfilled he use to cry and shout he is not ready to listern to u if u shout at him to be quite he says that iam angry actually he is alonad e kid at home i m very depressed with his this kind of nature as such he enjoyllig school but he does not want to go to school he is very intelligent has sharp memory pl help me so that i can cope up with him
2006-11-14 04:25:06 · 6 answers · asked by ritu sonu 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
You need to discipline him when he is bad and reward him when his is good. If he throws a tantrum, ignore it or hold him (so he doesn't hurt himself) until he calms down. Then encourage him to talk about why he was upset, but don't just give him anything he wants because he screamed. You need to give him clear rules and consequences for breaking your rules, kids WANT boundaries. Good luck.
2006-11-14 04:30:03 · answer #1 · answered by Rwebgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he may be spoiled. He is obviously not afraid of you or he wouldn't feel comfortable yelling at you. He is only 4 and you shouldn't take it personal. When he says he hates you. Tell him that you love him and always will, but that doesn't change the fact it is not tv time, it's time to go to school or what ever it is he is hating you for at the moment. Also, make sure if he does not do what he is told that there are consequeses (like a time out, no tv, ect) it is important that you enforce them consistantly and don't give in. If you beleive it is a more serious problem contact a parents help line, your family doctor, or a child phycoligist to be sure there are no serious problem. Hang in there!
2006-11-14 04:32:30 · answer #2 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his not wanting to communicate with you right now ,than maybe you should try and find someone that you know he will talk too. and have that person sit down with him, and talk with him about how his feeling, and what's going on in side of his little head and heart. I'm sorry to hear that, i have three boys and i know how it feels, to feel like your babies don't love you
2006-11-14 04:37:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, pray about it! No matter what, always tell him you love him. As for him being glued to the TV, take it away! Whatever you do, do not reward him for screaming and complaining.
I hope your troubles end soon, and God bless!!!
2006-11-14 04:35:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try siting down with him and talk to him more. Show him that you really care for him
2006-11-14 04:29:06 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Avatar: The Last Airbender 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats hard. Be patient. Dont let him get the best of you.
2006-11-14 04:43:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋