i got angry at my ex and pulled up all the roses in the front yard($4,000 worth).He threw me out of hits house

Question

still talks to me and see me once or twice a week,sometimes 3x a week. Is he just keeping me around for you know what-that three letter word.I do not think i can say the three letter word in fear of a violation. Should I just go on with my life since he only wants to see me after dark so his neighbors do not see me on his property..The lady across the street from him used to be his girlfriend over 20 years ago and she still is in his face. she is 63 yeard old and fat. is she a threat to my relationship with him.

Answer 1

Makes me wonder if he brings you in after dark so the neighbor won't see??? I'd move on with my life to a man who truly appreciates you.

Answer 2

I'm pretty sure pulling up $4000 of roses in a fury was the threat if not end to your relationship. If he only calls you for you-know-what you've been demoted from relationship status to just a booty call. I think the 63 year old woman across the street is the least of your problems in this "relationship".

Answer 3

You are the biggest threat to your relationship with him. Yes, he is just using you for sex, since he doesn't do anything else with you or take you out in daylight... in public, and being older and fat does not mean a man won't love her, if she is a nicer person that someone who loses her temper and pulls up $4,000 worth of roses in a tantrum.

You need anger management counseling and figure out why this relationship has developed into something like this.

Best Wishes,
Sue

Answer 4

You think thats bad, my wife and I got in an argument last year and she drove my 2005 Cadillac Escalade to the lake and let ir roll into the water and submerge.
A $57,000.00 vehicle underwater.
It article made headlines in the Newspaper.
My insurance covered the damages and the end result was she left in neutral by accident.
Were still together and I just bought her a Porsche a few days ago and posted it on answers because she wanted Blue not Red.
If you want to see my wife just look on the back of my Harley thats the Blonde nightmare of my life, but I love her.

Answer 5

Move on! There are other fish in the sea. If he is keeping you around for sex and you give it to him, you are no better than he is. Let him go back to his 63 yr old hag. They are meant to be. And, also, it's probably not a good idea to pull up people's roses, no matter how mad you are.

Answer 6

The only threat that you have to a healthy relationship is:
1) Your inability to control your temper
2) Your fear of loosing something you don't have; namely
your ex's love.
3) Your willingness to do anything to appease this man who
is obviously ashamed to be seen with you.

When you have the confidence and security to be on your own then and only then will you be ready to enter into a healthy relationship.

Answer 7

If you really want to find out how he feels, tell him no more sex until he lets you move back in with him. Believe me, you will be no worse off than you are right now, but you will know the truth about him and the neighbor.

Answer 8

He didnt throw you out because of roses, he threw you out because your a PHSYCO and he probably feared for his life while he slept, unfortunatly he is still thinking with his little head because most phsycos are really good in bed. He'll dump you 100% if he finds someone else to fill the s.e.x. void. At least I would.

Answer 9

To be honest it sounds like he definately keeps you around for the three letter word and since you are obliging him he will continue. As for the elderlly woman she must be hot if you feel threatened by her lol

Answer 10

Pulling up his roses was way out of line. He should have stopped seeing you altogether. He is definitely in it for the benefits. Move on.