ok best friend was getting married to this biich who was treating him like **** and using him and so on and so on. i decided i could not be his best man at his wedding. i refused to speak to him cause i didnt want to say why i wasnt going. i felt i shouldnt say anything but at the same time i didnt want to go and be nice to that biith. besides his family didnt like her either and he knew that so y should i say anything? she was nasty. NASTY. was that wrong of me?
2006-11-14 04:08:41 · 13 answers · asked by delmore 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should at least explain why you don't want to be his best man. It will not necessarily change his mind about marrying this woman, but at least it gives him an answer. And a couple of years down the road when he gets divorced (cause if she is that bad, thats most likely what will happen) he'll probably thank you for not standing up for him. I agree with you, not supporting it and not being his best man. Its too bad that people are blinded by love so to speak. My hubby's brother got married to a biotch and 10 years later hes like why didn't anyone tell me not to marry her. She's putting him through the ringer. Its sad to see.
2006-11-14 04:16:05 · answer #1 · answered by SexyLady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if she is nasty you should stand by your friend. You either stand by your friend or watch him not be your friend anymore. Plus the girl that you think is nasty will have to console him about you not being the best man and she will tell him what a terrible friend you are, now do you really want that?
2006-11-14 12:11:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you, But as a friend you should have told him how you felt. And being chosen for the postion of best man was for his sake not hers. So you really should have put all that bull behind you and support your friend to the max. While remerbing that he made his choice and he will have to pay for his bad choice in a wife and not you..................
2006-11-14 12:17:30 · answer #3 · answered by kilroymaster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are very wrong. This is your friend and you just stopped talking to him without a reason. You are not a friend at all. It is NONE of your business who he is marrying or if his family approves or not. It is called being an adult and making your own choices.
2006-11-14 12:25:57 · answer #4 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wasnt wrong for you not to stand up for him at the wedding because you didnt support it. But it was wrong for you not to explain yourself. You should have had the balls to tell your friend why you made that decision.
2006-11-14 12:11:15 · answer #5 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats is the whole problem he has no clue why u didnt go tell him be honest if thats your best freind u would try to stop it as much as u can wouldnt u wanna hurt him slightly instead of a nasty chick who can ruin his life ask yourself that
2006-11-14 12:24:43 · answer #6 · answered by bhitta122389 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it wasnt wrong you did what u felt was right but u could at least have said how u felt thats ur friend u should be honest
2006-11-14 12:14:09 · answer #7 · answered by shawnsboo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i wouldn't support a union of two people when one is a *****,and i dont get along with them,because you are the one he is going to come to with problems ,and at that point you will not have the best judgment because you cant stand her.so no
2006-11-14 12:12:19 · answer #8 · answered by youngprincez23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it was wrong of him because he should have listened too you since thats your bestfriend at that but you should go talk to him not his wife him and make up and just be happy for him its your bestfriend come on its a girl dont let you not likeing her come between yall. (think about it).
2006-11-14 12:15:25 · answer #9 · answered by fenkell_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shoulda told dude why though
he's probably thinking you screwed her or something
just tell him you can't do it in good will
i mean if he's your boi then you owe him an explanation atleast
2006-11-14 12:30:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋