I found out that my boyfriend of 3 weeks bet his friends that he'd sleep with me whlie I was with him Saturday (which I didn't). I found out from his friend's girlfriend that he did this and tonight I'm going to his house and then to a movie with him. Should I give him another chance? He also told me he loved me right before we fooled around on Saturday. I am thinking this is what I'm going to say while we're at his house...
Do you like me?
Do you love me?
Okay. I'm going to give you a chance to explain before I jump to conclusions....
What do you think? I am passed the point of depression that he'd do something like that and now I just want to hit him...Thank you...tell me if you need more information and then put this question on your watch list or whatever...
2006-11-14 04:00:35 · 8 answers · asked by JitterBug589 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him you found out about his bet. Demand an explanation. He told you he loved you because he wanted to sleep with you. You don't have to "jump to conclusions"- the truth is right in front of your eyes. He wants to get in your pants- plain and simple. Tell him either he respects you and stops worrying about having sex or the relationship is over.
2006-11-14 04:05:22 · answer #1 · answered by JustMyOpinion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately we cannot read boys minds, so we have to go with our gut. If he has already told you he loves you and it has only been three weeks there is something weird about that. Do not sleep with him if he tries then that means he is in t for the bet. A guys friends are like pests they wont go away until they force him to sleep with you, that is just how guys are. You can do better than that.
2006-11-14 12:12:47 · answer #2 · answered by trsfernandez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay...this cud end being like the movie...but doubt it. This is real-life! People are cruel like that. It's good he didn't win the bet, but if you honestly are thinking of giving hima 2nd chance, think again....he might just do what he did the 1st time.
2006-11-14 12:08:13 · answer #3 · answered by xoxoxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you have been dating the guy for 3 weeks. Do you honestly think he loves you. Kick him to the curb and find someone who won't bet with his friends that he can tap that a**.
2006-11-14 12:04:54 · answer #4 · answered by sugar girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that sounds great. If you want to give him another chance then go for it. It's extremely awful what he did to you. but talk to him.
2006-11-14 12:03:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ouch!!!!!!!! sorry be over him.he's not a man he's a boy! move on be happy and just know their are other fish in the sea!
2006-11-14 12:03:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i hate it when guys act like that. gosh it makes me mad!!!! give him 1 more chance ..
2006-11-14 12:05:36 · answer #7 · answered by christina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO but i have seen the series "all that".lol
2006-11-14 12:06:25 · answer #8 · answered by Kiara D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋