pset and don't no what to do started crying today in lessons at college please can someone help me he said he wants sex but not until I am 21 and i dont want to have sex with him let beucause i am only 17 and he seems to not be intertsed in to anymore
2006-11-14 03:49:15 · 24 answers · asked by sar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You seem pretty cool by your question and you deserve better than him. Let that guy go and let him be a pratt elsewhere!!
Be patient with your love life and someone will come along and treat you with more respect!!!
It will take time to fully get over him and when you do, you will soon relaise you did the right thing.
Take care!!!
2006-11-14 03:57:26 · answer #1 · answered by The Avenger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might feel bad now but in a few weeks of NO CONTACT and just getting on with things you will be over it - believe me. I am 35 and all my ex's I felt tragic when we split up but a few weeks later I was back out there and did not feel upset (I did feel sad when I thought about it though).
You will be fine - try taking some time off, do some reading at home and enjoy some 'me' time. You will soon recover!
x
2006-11-14 11:57:08 · answer #2 · answered by Saucy B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your self a new boy friend, at your age you think it is the end of the world when in actual fact you will look back on this moment and laugh later on in life. It doesnt really matter if you do have sex just dont get a name for yourself. And remember look after No 1. becuase no one else will.
2006-11-14 12:32:56 · answer #3 · answered by Fox Hunter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its sad that you have lost your boyfriend but you musnt feel sorry for yourself coz this guy was actually putting you under pressure and wanted to force you into something you were not prepared for and i think thats good for you. its normal that you may feel at loss at first but just pick yourself up and find the next guy who will respect you feelings and wishes and wont force you or blackmail you into anything. co i think what that guy did to you was blackmail, he knows that if you really want him you will give in to his demand coz he think you so much fear losing him of which i think it will be great for your esteem if you prove him wrong and show him how stromg a person you are.
So be strong girl and look up to the future and just forget about this loser, there are better guys out there, i promise you. And dont even try to show to him that you are sorry and would want to get back with him and offer him everything coz he will always blackmail you in future. So good luyck!
2006-11-14 12:12:55 · answer #4 · answered by Ayati 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunatly, this is what most men are all about. You will have many boyfriends, and some will show you respect and some wont. You have to sort out the good from the bad. You wait until your ready. Show strength and next time you see him ignore him, and if he approaches you tell him you're not interested.
2006-11-14 11:59:47 · answer #5 · answered by ralph d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should move on with your life. u need to find sum1 that respects u for who u r. but remember u are only 17 u r still young n got plenty of time to be worrying about sex.
plus a relationship that is built around trust honesty n compromise not about sex.
2006-11-14 14:02:25 · answer #6 · answered by lxl_emmalou88_lxl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not worth your tears if that is his shallow reason for dumping you. What a waste of oxygen he sounds, next he will be telling you that he has to have sex or all that semen inside him will make his jacobs hurt..... not worth one single tear honey, cry in private but in public let him think you are having the time of your life without him. He is not worth it! Just seen Bruza17/uk's answer, yeah, he is the reason people like you get hurt, thinks with his bits and not the brain cell God graced him with.
2006-11-14 11:53:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Believe me . . . he's not worth it, i no it seems cruel, but like you said, your only 17 and there is many more guys out there to date, promise ya! you ask any one on " Yahoo answers "! they will all tell you the same, just look forward to meeting other guys, one day your going to grow and get married and have kid's, enjoy being a flirt and single!
2006-11-14 11:56:58 · answer #8 · answered by red devil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey your still young...don't give it away until you are ready...will he wait till your 21? hmmmm i doubt it...move on sweetie....try to do something different instead of thinking about him...he's opened new avenues for you...be glad that he did what he did because you have the opportunity to meet someone else now...someone who really wants to be with you...while at college, i would not focus on lads....just get your work done then start mixing with other people...your dream guy will find you...bless you
2006-11-14 11:55:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sucks, but by the sounds of it, you’re better off without him.
I know it’s hard at the mo, but just try to enjoy some time with friends, and you'll soon start to pick up again.
If you see him about, try not to let him know how you are feeling, and just say hello. Don’t be rude. Be the bigger person.
Chin up hun, you'll soon feel better. :)
2006-11-14 12:13:27 · answer #10 · answered by Jelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋