I wrote a letter to a guy and he wrote me back I don't know what to take from it but this is what I wrote and what I got back.
Ok I had an amazing time friday night I really did your sweet and kind and amazing you really are I have actually thought this for a long time and I didn't know how to tell you. Thats why I asked you to dance with me at the party. I am going to tell you right now my heart is in a lot of pieces right now and I don't want to get hurt again but I know you would never hurt me. You have been a good friend over the last umm like 7 years. Thank you for not telling Sammy about what happened but I feel bad about it I mean your her brother and I am her friend and Justin I don't know how you feel about me at all I mean from Friday I would say you like me but I am just guessing and I need you to tell me before I put my heart out there to get broke. So I need you to tell me how you feel because if you do like me then thats a good thing if not thats ok to better tell me now
2006-11-14 03:47:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
then later ~smiles~ but if we go any further with this we have to tell Sammy. And I don't want to lose the 2 of you as friends over this at all. And I know this sounds weird but like if we were to get together and then break up it would kill be because I don't want to lose you as a friend...so please just let me know how you feel so I can figure out what to do you swept me off my feet and your steeling my heart...just be careful with it.....
~smiles & kisses~
Ash
he wrote back
I was thinking the same thing about you, and I would never want to break your heart. And your the only girl for me.
2006-11-14 03:47:59 · update #1
Well, here's my similar experience and advice. I was best friends with my ex boyfriend's sister for years. I knew he liked me because he made it very obvious. She would always tell me to stay away from him. I thought it was because she was afraid that if we hooked up, I would spend all my time with him. Well, eventually, that's what happened. We were together for 5 years and we have a daughter together. She ended up not being friends with me anymore and actually became best friends with my other best friend. The two of them started stuff with me and would gang up on me. They even keyed my brand new car. I think it was because I had chosen to spend all my time with my family and not them. Pure jealousy. We are no longer together. This was 4 years ago. I talk to my ex's sister on occasion and we're cool, but nothing like before. I guess it could work for some people, but definitely not in my case. I know one thing, you would never be able to talk about your boyfriend and the stuff you guys do, because she would never want to hear that, because it's her brother and it would gross her out. I think you should just be friends. I mean honestly, is it worth losing 2 friends over 1 guy? Good luck! I'm not being a hypocrit, I'm just trying to save another girl from some drama.
2006-11-14 03:57:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually I think that is very sweet but u should talk to your friend first not 4 permission but 2 let them know what is going on and how u feel. If they r a real friend they would respect your feelings and that you came up to them maturely and open. If this doesn't help or starts confritation then sorry.
2006-11-14 12:00:39 · answer #2 · answered by Indian Goddess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me as if you two really like each other but a mutual friend may not like the connection but i say stay friends if you feel it may ruion the friendship you already have. just let it grow into something more but dont force it. telling him how you felt was good and nowing he feels the same is even better but it could get ulgy because i asuming you know alot about him and if he dose something weird then you are going to want to tear his head off !just chill for now
2006-11-14 11:54:51 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs W. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wasn't a very lengthly reply in comparison to what you wrote out. If you were the only girl for me, would have told you how I felt instead of just agreeing with you. I would ask him about his past relationships in general to give yourself an idea of how long he stays in relationships.
2006-11-14 11:58:18 · answer #4 · answered by 33ea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats good. Don't over think it, or him. Let it go, and slow as it might. Keep talking to him, and let him make the next move. He seems interested. As girls we over thing and are above guys, they keep it simple.
2006-11-14 11:51:38 · answer #5 · answered by lilnuttbutt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he likes you and you've got to tell Sammy
2006-11-14 11:50:53 · answer #6 · answered by spunkybadger69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you but its possible that you could scare him away by giving him to much of yourself too quickly. Hold on to some of your feelings at first.
2006-11-14 11:52:07 · answer #7 · answered by smartdagger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take it that he was thinking the same thing about you. And that he wouldn't break your heart.
you'll probably want to tell his sister if either of you actually value your relationship with her
2006-11-14 11:49:58 · answer #8 · answered by Natalie M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He really didn't say much at all! Think about the big picture before you go further. Is it worth your friendship?
2006-11-14 11:50:00 · answer #9 · answered by thesweetestthings24 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
he wants to be with u. but the whole issue with your friend isnt able to just go away. you need to resolve it and then things will go smoother.
2006-11-14 11:58:04 · answer #10 · answered by Nick M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋