well i am a kind, compassionate man. i consider myself considerate but at the same time i enjoy being a random person (with moderation). I enjoy writing poetry and doing fun and crazy things with friends. lately, dated a couple of girls and every single relationship has ended pretty much the same way. She cheats on me with some other man and i'm left broken hearted. what am i doing wrong? what can i do to not have my heart broken again?
2006-11-14 03:39:26 · 22 answers · asked by greatpharohcesar 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unfortunately, it just is that way sometimes. You have had some bad luck with women, but I don't think it's anything you do, per se. Maybe it's the type of women you tend to fall for. Are you attracted to women who are super-confident and assertive, almost to the point of bitchiness? Do the women you date expect you to do whatever they tell you to? I think it's nice that you are a sensitive, kind, poetry-writing kind of guy, but if asserting yourself in a relationship isn't your strong suit, you'll probably keep getting your heart broken over and over again. Try dating outside our usual "type," and maybe you'll find a woman who will really love you for who you are and be faithful to you. Good luck!
2006-11-14 03:44:11 · answer #1 · answered by fizzygurrl1980 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I hate to say it but some women do know a good thing when they see it. I would date you. Maybe, you are too nice it sounds crazy but women, people in general are so used to being mistreated that when they are treated in the manner that they should they cannot accept it. Self destruction without even knowing it. I think that you should take it easy move a little slower, portion your compassion. So that you will not get hurt I know that it is hard because when something is coming from the heart it hard to give a little here and there. But in order to keep you from getting hurt and to make it so that you are able to give the person who really deserves all that you have all that you have, you have to take care of your heart. Don't change who you are just who and how you share it with the world.
2006-11-14 11:44:52 · answer #2 · answered by Nicole C 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
To put a long story short, you're dating the wrong girls. Unfortunately these days most girls go for the wild, bad boy, thug type. You just have to find that 'one in a million' type of girl (maybe I exaggerated that a bit). Once you find her, you can leave all the rest of these girls behind.
2006-11-14 12:31:03 · answer #3 · answered by GJneedsanswers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are subconsciously choosing the same type person so you have been getting the same results.It is we who choose who we want and some times what we want isn't that good for us.People don't change for others,they are who they are .Think and decide what you are looking for in a person and take the time needed to see clearly if this person is who they are or who you wish them to be.Your choices,your results.
2006-11-14 11:45:47 · answer #4 · answered by punkin 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you are just dating the wrong women.
Where do you meet these women? If you meet them through common interests (clubs you belong to, etc) that's a good place to start, so you know you at least have some things in common.
Do you go to church? Because if you meet someone through church they are more likely to share you values and be more honest and less likely to cheat.
2006-11-14 11:44:05 · answer #5 · answered by kristin c 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Take it slow. Remember to live each moment. Don't give your heart away so fast. That right there will make sure you don't hurt all the time. Don't look for the commitment, have fun right now. Things around you are telling you its not the right time to settle yet.
2006-11-14 11:43:39 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel D 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
you have a lot of good qualities...umm all i can say from personal experience is that you shouldnt attach yourself to these women so fast. once we get bored, we tend to move on. dont show her all you have to give at once. we do like a little mystery guy. hearts will get broken and im sure you have broken hearts as well.
2006-11-14 11:43:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
The girls your dating probably think your TOO nice and want something exciting and so they cheat. Your not doing anything wrong its the girls your with. You seem pretty nice just keep doing what your doing and you'll find the right person.
2006-11-14 11:43:06 · answer #8 · answered by I love you! 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You need to blend yourself better. Most women love a gentle man but they also crave a mans man. Do the sensitive thing, but with a manly tint.
2006-11-14 11:43:32 · answer #9 · answered by Floss 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
The only thing I can think of is to show the girl more love and intrest in her, and make sure you really like her and that she likes you before you go into your relationship any further.
2006-11-14 11:43:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋