so i went o ut to my first party since ive lived in texas so we go to a party had fun it was 20 mins away from my house im not all that familar with the area so i didnt really know where i was at so were drinking and have fun one of the guys told he and my friend hed take us home not to worry so we didnt around 1 we were in the garage and we were making out and he wanted to go all the way and i told him so he was just like whatever after about 30 mins he left with out telling us because he was mad at me oh well. So we call my bff friend and hes says ya hill be on his way as long as i do something with his friendi was like whatever i need to get home it was alllready 3 so they get there for like 10 mins then they said they'll be right back and they took off too we called them and they said i wouldnt give it up. how does that happen to you to times in one night i finally got home like at 4 how messed up is that/??
2006-11-14 03:32:14 · 16 answers · asked by lost_in_love_still 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i ended up calling my mom to come get me. But i just moved here from cali and it was my first texas party and i was so dissapointed
2006-11-14 03:38:15 · update #1
ya and im a virgin so i definetly wasnt just willing to give it up to just to anyone so dont think that im a hoe or anything like that they werent my friends they where my friends friends but i will never hang out with them again
2006-11-14 03:41:40 · update #2
bff-means best friend forever not boyfriend
2006-11-14 03:43:09 · update #3
It is messed up! But the only thing I see messed up is that YOU were "whatever i need to get home."
How old are you?!
You need to find new guy friends. Also- next time you make sure you have a ride- and not with a guy who will want something in return.
BE CAREFUL. Too many young girls think they are invincible. Put yourself around people who actually give a damn about you.
Smarten up!
2006-11-14 03:37:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am really sorry that happened to you..I can imagine how much that must have sucked!!
But..
I would say you are definitely hanging with the wrong crowd of people.
Make sure you have a trusted ride next time you party, or bring enough money with you for a cab ride home...
I still think though its in your best interest to find other people to hang with.
good luck...and kudos for not giving it up =)
2006-11-14 11:38:01 · answer #2 · answered by Shakira 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Child, pls change your friends you need people with direction around u, and stop going out to late night parties like this unless you have someone responsible to take you home.
2006-11-14 11:40:54 · answer #3 · answered by haboba13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is messed up. your boyfriend really didn't care about u or he wouldn't have asked you to do something with his friend. then again you shouldn't have been making out with someone else in the first place maybe then you would have gotten a ride home. but also on the same note good for you for not giving it up because now you how they really are.
2006-11-14 11:38:55 · answer #4 · answered by checotah01 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Like totally messed up.
Sounds like you are in for a real tragedy happening to you if you can't figure out that the situations you are putting yourself into can get you killed. Don't mess with those cowboys in Texas they will do things to you that your mama never told you about.
2006-11-14 11:37:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
first, you need to NOT goto parties like this, that'll happen each time...
also, if your friend (or even a friend of a friend) said that they'll pick you up if you do something for them, get rid of those friends, you don't need em, their using you...
this is totaly messed up, isn't there some family that wasn't to far away you could call?? a brother, mother, anything??
2006-11-14 11:36:21 · answer #6 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Very and it sounds like these guys are shady. You need to be careful with who you hang out with these days women are getting killed in situations like that.
2006-11-14 11:38:36 · answer #7 · answered by Venus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sound like your a pig and they think so to. grow up or you will be a aids victim. you have issues and not 1 friend by the sounds of it.
learn how to spell and use punctuation.
2006-11-14 11:38:08 · answer #8 · answered by robkim04 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
That is messed up!! dont hang with them anymore. They are losers... Forget them! ..sorry that u had to go through that! ciao...
2006-11-14 11:44:49 · answer #9 · answered by alohaforever16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's pretty messed up and my only advice is, you need new friends!
2006-11-14 11:35:48 · answer #10 · answered by edu_jr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋