I have a friend, we've been friends for a while, but she told me she had feelings for me. I don't wanna ruin our Friendship, but should I take a chance and see how things go?
2006-11-14 03:29:41 · 16 answers · asked by Fiesty Redhead 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Life is so very short and opportunities present themselves to those with open minds and hearts. Your friend sees in you something she cannot find in others and as her friend you should be able through discussion initially and then perhaps intimacy to discover what she is searching for and you may learn an amazing amount about yourself.
If you can get past our uptight social morals, life can be incredibly more fulfilling. Exploration is the basis of all need.
2006-11-14 03:35:15 · answer #1 · answered by The walker 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are right, it is taking a chance of losing a friendship.
I think when people are good friends; thier feelings sometimes get misinterpreted. If you really liked him that way, you would not have asked the question. You would have known. Keep the friendship....good friends are hard to find.
2006-11-14 11:32:30 · answer #2 · answered by Tracey H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really can only answer that by figuring out how you feel. Do feel something building, go for it. If not, don't push the situation. It would diffinitly ruin a friendship.
2006-11-14 11:35:57 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like her go for it but if you only care for her as a friend hold back. Relationships that begin as friendships but end always end friendships.
2006-11-14 11:32:22 · answer #4 · answered by Venus 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it depends how good of friends you are. If you can imagine being without her as a friend, then go for it. The thing is that once you cross that line, things will never be the same.
2006-11-14 11:32:23 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She watches to many new age lesbian movies.... No matter what americans think or any other culture. BEING GAY is not the new thing it is sick and disgusting. Go read you bible all your answers will be there. If anyone deletes this it is a shame that people cannot answer these questions openly and honestly.
2006-11-14 11:33:03 · answer #6 · answered by "M" 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How do you feel about her? If you think the relationship could be even better than the friendship, go for it....you only live once.....
2006-11-14 11:32:28 · answer #7 · answered by josie775 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should take the chance but talk abput how if things dont work lets stay friends! then maybe it wont end up badly!
2006-11-14 11:33:32 · answer #8 · answered by manders359 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're good friends, even if it doesn't work you should be able to remain friends. If you like her like that and want to give it a shot, go for it! If you truly are friends, you can't hurt the relationship!
2006-11-14 11:31:30 · answer #9 · answered by edu_jr 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
YOU JUST HAVE TO SEARCH YOUR HEART AND DECIDE IF LOSING YOUR FRIEND IS WORTH IT IN THE LONG RUN. FRIENDS ARE FEW AND FAR BETWEEN. TAKE CARE AND GOOD LUCK.
2006-11-14 11:46:26 · answer #10 · answered by sherryw_1978 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋