my dad is coming back home and hes really stricked , hes coming bk to finish a devorce with my mum ... im half moroccan an half spanish and as a young girl i dont want to wear a skarf ... if hes stayin for just 5 days to finish off with mum should i have to wear it ????? i dnt even knw how to put it on lol ??
2006-11-14 03:25:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If not wearing the scarf will cause additional difficulties for your mother, would it kill you to wear one? Discuss it with your mother so that whatever decision is made, she is with you on it.
Sometimes, compromise is best. Other times you have to stand for your right to believe as you wish. Which one of the times is this?
Best Wishes,
Sue
2006-11-14 03:29:55 · answer #1 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first way to encourage understanding is to show respect and then ask for it in return.
We are all part of an occurring global awareness regarding all of our isolated traditions and beliefs.
Older people often have nothing else to fall back on. It is what they were often taught from birth and it is hard to diminish the only foundation they stand on.
It is difficult for the youth today because all of the rules our parents and grandparents followed are clashing and it is time for us all to find the common ground.
It is also difficult for the parents and the grandparents in every environment.
2006-11-14 11:43:32 · answer #2 · answered by richardnattress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you are half Moroccan and half Spanish,meet him halfway. I would tell him, out of respect for him,You will wear it,for him,at home,for the time he is there. If he likes the idea,Then tell him to show you,how to wear it.
2006-11-14 11:32:10 · answer #3 · answered by EL UNICO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That should be something you take up with your Mom, also maybe just in respect for your father and any future relationsonship you wil have with him- think about it that way.
2006-11-14 11:29:23 · answer #4 · answered by ARTmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What religion is he? It doesn't matter, it's your religion, if you don't want to wear a scarf then don't. Only wear it if you want to show reverence to God, not to pacify your Dad, or because you feel obligated.
2006-11-14 11:28:47 · answer #5 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Why did you come to the New World, then, if not to have the freedom to choose?"
2006-11-14 11:28:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get in church
2006-11-14 11:27:12 · answer #7 · answered by Jojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋