this guy has been chasing me for a while just asking me to go out somwhere with him, but ive always said im busy. this week ive asked him and now he is saying maybe. whats going on?
2006-11-14 03:24:43 · 13 answers · asked by lulu x 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is going to play hard to get, guys mostly like to chase, they dont actually want to catch you.....try calling off the date and see if he starts up again?
2006-11-14 03:46:04 · answer #1 · answered by kt_sub2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is called you have hurt his feelings yes I said feelings or either is returning the favor for you doing him like that if you liked him or even thought about going out with him before than you should have I would probably do the same except I wouldn't chase you for long then say bye maybe he is just playing hard to get and he wants you to know how he felt when he asked you out hope this will give you a little insight
2006-11-14 11:31:04 · answer #2 · answered by jds31177 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't like the taste of your own medicine, huh?
Only kidding, but men don't like to be strung along any more than women do.
Give the guy a break. Next time he asks you out say yes. Or ask him again. Be straight with him and treat him the way you'd like to be treated.
I didn't fancy my hubby when he asked me out and only said yes as a "practice" date. Goes without saying he turned out to be the man of my dreams and he's now my hubby. Result!!!
2006-11-14 11:41:34 · answer #3 · answered by Fifi L'amour 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, this is a load of crap that you don't need messing up your head. If he is really interested in you he will ask you again, leave it alone and see what happens, but don't chase him, no way do that, he will not have any respect for you and maybe even think you are at his call. keep cool
2006-11-14 12:17:01 · answer #4 · answered by ruth i 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I know.You got used to the fact that he likes you,and when he stopped being interested ,you felt you lost something.Act like u don't care anymore ,he'll notice.
2006-11-14 11:39:41 · answer #5 · answered by Gabriel D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby girl, it's chased and be chased. it's just a game. now, it's up to you to pursue it or let him play his own game.
2006-11-14 11:27:13 · answer #6 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably thinks you were playin hard to get so hes doin the same either that or hes lookin at sum 1 else
2006-11-14 12:41:57 · answer #7 · answered by hotvix1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now he's playing hard to get or he is busy !!
2006-11-14 11:28:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's doing the same game you are playing
2006-11-14 11:27:24 · answer #9 · answered by szfr8l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating karma ! x
2006-11-14 11:31:20 · answer #10 · answered by misbehave4me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋