So like this guy asked me out.. hez nice n stuff.. but hez obese (really really obese).. oh i know appearance is not everything, but i'm quiet popular around (i dont mean to brag)..
he really likez me.. but i'm wondering if ppl would make fun of me.. i can live with that.. but then if some hot guy comes along, i would naturally tend to check him out.. wouldnt this upset my obese frend? make him insecure n stuff..
I donno what to do.. i dont wanna hurt him.. n at the same time i donno if i wanna go out with him..
i dont like to time pass arnd with guyz n go out with them on trial basis.. if i'm going out with someone, it should be steady.. no fooling around business..
so the big question is.. should i go out with him?
2006-11-14 03:04:43 · 11 answers · asked by Urmm 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have a frend whoz been with a "fat" guy for quiet a while now.. I must say shez really pretty.. could have anyone she wants.. but its him that she wants.. ppl who arent all that fortunate looking, develop other skills that would keep it interesting..
Imagine this.. ur with a "hot guy" whoz got no sense of humor .. or whoz really dumb.. or an MCP.. i'm sure u wont want to spend time with him..
so the question u have to ask urself is.. do u think he'll keep u happy? dont a give a damn abt wot others r gonna say abt u.. if "the others" make fun of u, then they dont relly care for u... n the one who actually cares is this guy.. so who do u want to please? the world that doesnt care or the guy whoz todally into u?
secondly, if ur askin this question.. that is if ur even considering him as an option, then u prolly do have feelings for him too.. if not you would have said "no" without giving it that much thought...
so go follow ur heart gurl.. if its meant to be, it will be.. u'll never know wht ur losing out on if u dont try.. the worst that could happen is a break up.. i'm sure u both will move on in the course of time after that...
n yeah.. if ur worried abt his appearance, u can motivate him to reduce.. do urself a favor girl... juz go for it..
2006-11-14 03:35:51 · answer #1 · answered by Think 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No-it will never work. You are already questioning whether to even go out with him, and then checking out other guys while with him. Why get involved with someone you don't really have attraction to?
2006-11-14 11:08:00 · answer #2 · answered by blonde_bitch_norris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes of course, the only question should be if u love/like him. u never can tell he might be the best thg to happen to u. my guy is obesed too and the only thg that matters to him in the world is me.he treats me like a queen dat i am. right now, i ve help him reduce his weight.
2006-11-14 11:10:23 · answer #3 · answered by joddie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not attracted to him don't go out with him because you would end up hurting him even worse later. Tell him you would like to remain good friends with him.
2006-11-14 11:08:57 · answer #4 · answered by Venus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are worried that others would make fun of you then no don't date him...it seems that if you do, he will be the one that gets hurt.
2006-11-14 11:07:29 · answer #5 · answered by Patricia L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have doubt with your own decision. you will go out with someone who you dont have any doubt at all. if you really like him and still checking out other guys, its better to stay best friends.
2006-11-14 11:13:02 · answer #6 · answered by miv farizzet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for him. If it dosent work out then you know say no sorry i cant date you anymore. If u really like him ud do it.
2006-11-14 11:07:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure...why not? You said it the best yourself, appearance is not everything.
2006-11-14 11:07:21 · answer #8 · answered by greggmercer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say that if you like some other guy and you dont like this guy then don't date him.
2006-11-14 11:07:48 · answer #9 · answered by Giselle J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you'll just end up hurting him in the process
2006-11-14 11:07:11 · answer #10 · answered by Brandy B. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋