My husband and I wanted to wait 2 years before we started trying. I am scared to tell him. What should I do? Has anyone been in the situation?
2006-11-14 03:00:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Actually, we did use a form of birthcontrol:condoms/calendar method. I can't take the pills.
2006-11-14 03:17:12 · update #1
Honey, don't act like this is all your fault. Ummmm, he had something to do with it too. LOL Just tell him, but certainly don't apologize. Tell him, "WE are pregnant." "WE kind of had an accident." "WE have done this, now let's be happy and plan for the future." Having children is certainly not easy, but it's the best and most wonderful thing that happened to me and my husband.
2006-11-14 03:07:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry.....everything is going to be alright............first of all, how old are you? Don't be scared to tell him, i mean, ya'll might have planned to wait two years, but if you are pregnant right now, your husband might be excited too.......don't feel like your plans went down the drain.......if that what you feel...
I have been married for nine months, we planned to wait two years also, but i want a baby, sometimes i feel so lonely when he is at work.....and if i go out i see all of my friends having newborns....i mean, don't worry.
But tell your husband, i bet he will be happy to hear that he is going to be a daddy!
Congratulations!! Good luck!!
2006-11-14 13:42:26 · answer #2 · answered by pinkcari05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met my husband in February 2006, and came up pregnant in April 2006. We were gonna wait, too. I just told him I thought I was pregnant. We took 6 HPT's to make sure, and he was happy. Just come out and tell him. The baby won't go away.
2006-11-14 11:06:04 · answer #3 · answered by I_didn't_do_it 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just tell him. I mean four months ago you both said for better or for worse and a baby is for better and for worse (the worse is early timing, morning sickness, getting fat, being moody, then the labor followed by the crying all night etc.) But you should ultimately be happy about this, it makes your bond with your new husband that much tighter. good luck!
2006-11-14 11:42:12 · answer #4 · answered by NewMommy!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry! You both wanted to wait 2 years-but, things happen and now you have a beautiful baby together,it just came a little earlier than expected-It's a good thing!
2006-11-14 11:34:03 · answer #5 · answered by Urchin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him and be happy. You are blessed I have been married 2 years and trying to get pregnant no luck. Congrats.Embrace you pregnancy, Girl
2006-11-14 11:13:58 · answer #6 · answered by Kia25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, there is never "right time" for babies; but when they're here, you can't imagine your life without them :)
Tell your husband, show him your love, convince him that there is much more love for him and your baby. Be happy and good luck with the pregnancy!
2006-11-14 11:44:45 · answer #7 · answered by anchik22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey... ya know what... you cant always plan EVERYTHING... this is a gift and im sure he will be just fine... perhaps a tad shocked... as im sure you were as well... but im sure you both will make great parents and will enjoy this... its been said that the best laid plans... well cant remember word for word... but the point is that the best laid plans dont always happen... things will be how they will... just remember this is a blessing... and joyful... hope this was helpful... hugs...
2006-11-14 11:08:13 · answer #8 · answered by jeans0079 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your just going to have to tell him...i got pregnant with my daughter when my husband and i were still dating and we were only dating 4 months when we found out
2006-11-14 12:03:00 · answer #9 · answered by sjeboyce 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him, talk to him when he is in a good mood. If you wanted to wait two years you should have used more reliable birth control.
2006-11-14 11:02:52 · answer #10 · answered by nanny4hap 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋