My buddie who is a rower on the boat I cox got in an argument with me the other day.
(I know this guy has a thing for me but I can't do anythiing about it because getting with a guy on my crew team is off limits and a dumb idea...i hate drama)
Anyways I dated this guy the first 7 weeks of school and to mend what he hurt i made out with quite a few boys in a small period of time each one ended up fustrating and stressing me out even more... So Like Meredith Gray I am knitting, and havn't kissed any boys for the last 4 weeks and it's been great, no stress, no drama, no stressing over boys only school.
He is trying to tell me I am kidding myself and that one is only truely happy when they have someone else in there life.
Does anyone see what he is saying true because I feel so much happier now and so complete with myself knowing I need no one but myself (for the time being).
Do you think we are only happy when we have someone else in are lifes?
2006-11-14 03:00:16 · 4 answers · asked by Coxie Megan 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it makes a differnce I am a freshman in college
I know girls who are trying to find husbands and that idea in it's self scares me
2006-11-14 03:01:30 · update #1
If you're a freshman in college, you're what, 18-20? I'm around your age and already married. Since getting married my thoughts on that did a 360. I thought I had to have a guy in my life to be happy. Since I was 13 I haven't been single. Everytime a relationship ended I had another one start that same week. I think you're very smart to put guys aside and concentrate on school. Men are trouble! LOL. College is tough, I know if my husband didn't have me (and our two kids, we got busy fast) he'e be done. But since I came along and the babies came he's had to take less hours and he's even failed a class or two. He isn't focused on school like he should be. Have yourself a summer fling or something, but as far as being happy only when someone else is in your life, no. I think I'd rather be single.
2006-11-14 03:06:55 · answer #1 · answered by Kallie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it's different for everyone. it could be possible that you like being alone so much just because you've been with someone for so long and this is a good change for you. personally, i think that eventually seeing all the happy couples around you will make you sad and you will go back to wanting a boyfriend or someone to be with
2006-11-14 11:04:16 · answer #2 · answered by Kristen V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live your life. You are filled with potential. Hang with the girls, go out and have fun and play the field. I have been married before. You can have a great life without them. Drama kills everything. Enjoy the stressless life. You are doing fine!
2006-11-14 11:06:27 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no we need your mom
2006-11-14 11:02:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋