When you were....?

Question

17-21 or around there and you had your first bf or gf who you hoenstly believed at that time was your first true love, on reflection was it?

and have you crossed paths in later life and married or become friends or have you never seen each other again?

what im curious to know is whether your first love is always some one that will always own a part of your heart and that part of you yearns to see once more to see if the old magic is still there or whether your first love was just a crush and nothing more?

Is/ was your first love really love?

Answer 1

i am 25 now and recently (1 yr ago) ended a 6 yr relationship with my "first love." i believed he was the man i was going to marry. we met on a blind date and connected really quickly. our relationship was not easy by any means, it was a first for both of us. but we managed to make it work for 6 yrs. finally towards the end of the relationship i realized i wasn't truly happy and he seemed not to care much, so i called it quits. it was the hardest, saddest, and most heartbreaking thing i can ever imagine going through. after 1 month of being broken up and not speaking he called me and we had a wonderful conversation. he told me he realized how lucky he was to have someone like me and that he also realized how much he loved me. he wanted to marry me and all the fluffy stuff. i told him i will always love him but our time had passed and i have moved on. we haven't talked since. the one thing i am happy about is the last words we said to each other were i love you.

Answer 2

My first real gf and I were 19 when we met at college
(12 years ago) we were together for 10 years we then decided
that we needed a change so 2 years ago we got married
dear lord I can hardly explane how mutch I love that woman
she doesnt own a peice of my heart, shes got the whole thing.

Answer 3

yuk no. Gosh I fell in love with this lad who was a few years old than me and we were together for quite a while, but in the end it finished and i always thought i would love him, have a place in my heart for hi, but nowadays I dont even think about him, eh was a bit of a **** to me and i never thought anyone would be any better but I was totally wrong. And now funny things is he is not half as good looking as he was then and I see him and think gosh i must have been mad!! I also thought I was totally in love with him but when you do fall in love you realise it was just a huge crush and never really love.

Answer 4

First love is always special and will always have a place in your heart as it's the first time you experience all the feelings and emotions that come with being in love and so you're unlikely to forget the person or the experience.

Answer 5

Yes i thought that i found my true love at 18, she was 16, we have recently split up after 4 years So on reflection probably not the ONE, or maybe you never know.....?!?!?!?

I will probably always hold a special place in my heart, as she was a number of 1sts.... for me

Answer 6

my mother was high school sweat hearts with my dad he was her first and vice versa, after highschool, they split up, they both found outher spouces but since then there were divorces. My parents ran into eachother, un planned, and now they are happily married!!

they both loved the other person they were with, but felt more for eachother. So yes i believe that you first "love " will always "own" a part of your heart.

Answer 7

my first real bf was when i was 17 and i was with him for 7 years when he cheated on me and although he did that and i havent seen him for 5 years he still has a place in my heart coz he was my first love

Answer 8

i can honestly say my first true love was the most intense. i've never loved any other man in the same way ( not even my hubby ). i regularly see my first love and time has not been kind to him ( he looks dog rough in fact) and although there is definitely no romantic feelings there anymore i will always consider him my true love.