Seriously....I'm trying to figure it out. My gf and I are great everywhere except the bedroom...she just lies there. I've tried everything you can think of....romantic settings....taking care of her emotional needs...everything - you name it, I've tried it....so should I be happy with bad sex because everything else is ok?
2006-11-14 02:52:58 · 28 answers · asked by Lancer 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how long were you together? i ask this because i used to be very "stiff" in the bedroom...it took me a while to loosen up but now look out! it usually doesn't make it to the bedroom!and i am more verbal because i want him to know i am feelin it!! maybe she needs time to really loosen up! give it time...
2006-11-14 03:00:14 · answer #1 · answered by bev_lev 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First off, if she is experienced - she should know that just laying there is a complete turn off to a guy. If the guy is satisfying you, I could understand not being able to move - but no moaning, or groaning or movement can easily turn a hot moment into a cold on.
Anyway, my suggestion would be to talk to her about it. If you have tried everything and nothing is wrong. Obviously she just isn't getting it. So, sit her down and tell her that you are unsatisfied with your sex-life.
2006-11-14 03:05:30 · answer #2 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to discuss this issue. Sex is part of the connection between two people. Don't ignore your own feelings. You will be so miserable not only in the bedroom, it might surface into the middle of your relationship.
2006-11-14 02:57:45 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel D 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
have you talked to her about it?ask her to get freaky? i think if everything is good, then that should be what counts. sex is a key factor in a relationship, but maybe she needs to feel sexy and attractive. tell her what youd like her to do to you and have her do the same so it opens up...if you dont have a problem with the boring sex then be happy...if not talk to her..i promise she'll listen!
2006-11-14 02:57:36 · answer #4 · answered by manders359 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to her man. tell her that your not enjoying it. Never ever settle for bad sex on a regular basis, if she not putting out enough tell her she has to get into it it some more, because your not having a good time, and thats what its all about.
2006-11-14 02:56:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe becuase your not putting your stuff out there!! So why try if she ani't feeling you being all sprung!!! Well i guess you could say she probably ani't satisfied with you, So do something new, try out a new way to approach her and make her feel you coming than make a quick exit for love okay GoodLuck!! hope it goes well for you dude!!!
2006-11-14 03:06:46 · answer #6 · answered by Tilly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be glad that she does give you sex. Maybe she just lies there because you are not good in bed.
2006-11-14 02:55:55 · answer #7 · answered by brown eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i believe that for short period of time,bad sex is better.the best thing u can do is talk to her.tell what ud like her to do.or suggest trying out some new moves or different places
2006-11-14 03:07:15 · answer #8 · answered by im_loosing_my_mind_1985 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be she has somebody else and she just in it for the money so just find another girl thats down with sexx so sorry fo that but a guy has to do what a guy as to do so get another gurl thats down!!!!
2006-11-14 03:08:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if everything else is ok then try to turn the bad sex to good sex...turn her on before going to bed and dont ask her to do what she doesnt like to...Hummm and be creative in bed ...I bet you can.
2006-11-14 02:57:06 · answer #10 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋