Help with my relationship?

Question

This is like my first ever real and mature relationship.I love my gf alot and I know she loves me too but I am always afraid of losing her or doing something that might push her away from me.I know i sound silly but its just how I feel.Perhaps I lack soem selfconfidence although I am very successful(socially speaking) and I have high selfconfidence.Its just i want her to be next to me the whole time and cant imagine a day that goes by without seeing her.what should I do?or is this normal for such matur relationship build on true love?thank u

Answer 1

hi
the real fact of yr problem is that u don't have enough faith on yrself and of yr gf let me tell you somethng if u are afraid of losing her take this idea from yr mind. I don't knw u but i advise u take yr time to learn more about yr gf i mean her way of living her manners her of behaving. Just ask her intentions towards u dear u knw talk will make learn more about yr gf more talk to her more u will learn somethng new on her just give her freedom don't try to put restriction on her or on her freedom.
For me true love is base on faith on each other knw each other understand listen to each other help each other in difficult moment do have all these in yr relationship if u don't these try to put it in yr relationship and u will find yr relationshp improve
just remeber if yr gf love u a lot watever will happen she will never let u down. So take care
and try to pu it in yr relationshp

Answer 2

Wow.. I am going through the exact same thing! I mean exact!

I too had this problem, I mean I still do. But you should trust her enough to stay by your side and if she claims to love you then that means she loves you. Trust your gut and don't be afraid of loosing her because if you worrie about loosing her then you might just loose her.

I don't know if these are normal feelings but you're not alone in what you're feeling. :)

Good luck with your relationship!

Answer 3

AWWWWW Your in love!! and there is nothing wrong with that. just keep your confidence and be you. You dont have to change anything, if you're loving and caring and spend time with her and give her time to breathe then you are good to go. Trust, Honesty, Communication are the main key points in having a strong relationship. Sex too (LOL) . As long as you have that your are okay. So stop worrying because you are going to make something wrong. just relax and let nature take its course.

Answer 4

Right now you are going through the puppy love stage. Once that is over and those butterflies and wanting to be with her every second are over, then you will know if you have true love or not.