Is masterbating cheating?????????????????
2006-11-14 02:49:24 · 16 answers · asked by DEBBY'S BABY 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How could it be cheating??? You're touching yourself!!!! If you're alone, or with your partner and you masturbate, you're with nobody outside of your relationship and the way I see it, that's not cheating. If anything, you could be helping your partner...For instance, if you have trouble getting off with your partner but you can do it on your own, you can give your partners pointers or suggestions to try IE) Rub this way/squeeze harder, that sort of thing.
Masturbation, for that reason, can actually be a good thing for relationships because after all, it'ss all about finding what what works for you.
Have fun with it, and if you're really that worried about it, talk to your partner and find out how they feel about it...
Good luck
2006-11-14 02:53:48 · answer #1 · answered by rainbowofhope04 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
heck no! in fact it may keep you from cheating. if you like to masterbate you should really expand on the experience. maybe even get your husband involved, he'll love it!
2006-11-14 10:56:36 · answer #2 · answered by Btieti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, how long ago you got married?? Secondly, how long
did you two date BEFORE you got married? I'm asking because it depends how healthy your sex lives are...........the two of you should be comfortable w/each other in the bedroom or in any other room in your house...............If your sex lives is rockin' then the two of you should be comfortable to masturbate while alone OR watching each other doing it. It's a very sexy and/or sensuous thing to experience ESPECIALLY when your hubby watches you----------to him it'll be like watching you in Rated X form!!
Peace****************
2006-11-14 11:09:41 · answer #3 · answered by LuvlyOne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! Men especially will masturbate even if they have wives or girlfriends that give them sex daily! Hell, and alot of women masturbate with husbands esp. if he's sorry in bed she needs an orgasm!
2006-11-14 10:55:26 · answer #4 · answered by P. C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no it is not,it's a healthy way to relieve tension or stress.
you need to ask yourself how many times and how often.
and possibly discuss this with your hubby,good luck.
2006-11-14 12:17:31 · answer #5 · answered by chris s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone masturbates! It's one of life's great pleasures.
2006-11-14 11:13:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no -not at all -it's a very natural thing to do and you should include that in your sex with your husband -
2006-11-14 10:50:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you switch hands.
2006-11-14 10:51:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
God I hope not...lol. Seriously though, no, not at all!!!
2006-11-14 10:56:40 · answer #9 · answered by Corona 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you doing it to yourself or someone else?... either way, I don't think so...
2006-11-14 10:51:27 · answer #10 · answered by jeep_man129 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋