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I've had very bad luck with asking women out. I try to sound confident, but I've been told (by my friends) that I sound desperate, not confident. Anyone else ran into a similar situation? I want to be able sound like I'm confident & positive, but I don't know how. I know only I can make myself confident & positive, but I need to be pointed in the right direction. Anybody know something I can do that can be a good start?

2006-11-14 02:43:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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When you first talk to a girl dont come up to them like your trying to hook up, give them that feeling of a friendship talk about some intrests and things around in your senario. And tell her nice things about what you guys have talked about not so much her looks she will see you as someone worth talking to again or a friend to start off with and once a friend easyer for her to see what kind of person you are.

2006-11-14 02:49:09 · answer #1 · answered by D'oh! 5 · 0 0

Bro i think i know what you are saying. I have a buddy who is a super nice guy that if a chick would give him a shot would really like him. But his problem is just that he is so worried about upsetting them with sounding to pushy that he is apologizing all the time and making it awkward for them. Do what i told him. if you want to ask this chick out look at her straight in the eye (not like a crazy stalker but a honest not afraid of eye contact look) and talk to her and say what you want her to know. HI i am (your name and what ever you think is appropriate for the time can i buy you a drink) and just speak slowly and with out nervous tic's like rubbing your hands or clearing your throat think of it like this your not the first guy to be shot down and will certainly not be the last. just because she doesn't want to go out with you or turns down you invite doesn't mean she is disgusted it just she doesn't think your not right for her girls are better at being nice than us guys so keep that in mind. and live a little take a chance and have a spine

2006-11-14 03:05:15 · answer #2 · answered by sucker4chicks 2 · 0 0

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2016-10-03 23:04:45 · answer #3 · answered by lavinia 4 · 0 0

Learn to accept the flaws you have that make you feel unconfident and realize no ones perfect .
And confidence will follow.

2006-11-14 02:49:15 · answer #4 · answered by . 6 · 0 0

Try not to ramble as this looks like you are nervous. Maybe you dont sound as desperate as your friends say, they could be making you feel more paraniod and consious of it. Maybe just think to yourself there's plenty of fish in the sea, if she likes me it's because of me and not who i am pretending to be?

2006-11-14 02:47:45 · answer #5 · answered by amandaharris11 1 · 0 0

Try a combination of being funny and cocky. There'll be no trace of desperation seen in your approaches anymore - trust me, it works like magic. Best of luck.

2006-11-14 02:48:57 · answer #6 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 1 0

RELAX girls are like dogs and can sense fear, we pounce on that fear
Once you stop trying so hard and stop caring,that's when it gets easy.
Also the more people you ask out the more practice you get, maybe ask them for feedback

2006-11-14 02:47:41 · answer #7 · answered by Lg 4 · 0 0

dont worry u will find the right woman that wont care about all that pettie behaivor

2006-11-14 03:14:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

you have to start by not worrying about what other ppl think

2006-11-14 02:52:00 · answer #9 · answered by KaKes 2 · 1 1

do what i do, jest lat the girls come to you

2006-11-14 02:46:55 · answer #10 · answered by Pharaoh 3 · 0 1

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