THis guy I just broke up with would go out alone with female friends all the time... yet he cringed with jealousy and got very upset and angry when I simply talked to a guy.
Was it so wrong to break up? Is he right?
2006-11-14 02:42:41 · 8 answers · asked by ashleythequestionasker 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Short answer, double standards are wrong. Period, no exceptions.
Longer answer, you had every right to dump him. Jealousy and possessiveness aren't good qualities to have in a relationship. Even when you are dating as a teen, a relationship should be an even ground, like marriage. It should be one set of rules for him, and another for you. If he wants the freedom to do what he wants with who he wants, then he needs to extend the same freedom to his girlfriend. He can't expect any girl to accept his female friends if she isn't allowed any male ones.
You did the right thing, and you have no reason to feel bad over this jerk.
2006-11-14 02:48:32 · answer #1 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It wasn't wrong to break up with him. My ex used to do that same thing. He would go over his female friends house and hang out with them and stuff. He would drive them around when they called and asked. He would sit up at night and talk to them on the computer. But he would get pissed if someone called me or came over. In the end, I found out that he was cheating on me. I wish I would have broken up with him sooner instead of spending 2 and a half years with him. Trust me. You did the right thing.
2006-11-14 02:48:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that jealousy stems from insecurity. He might not be emotionally ready to trust someone implicitly. He might be cheating so figures if you go out with other guys you might cheat on him. There is no reason to play those type of games. There is no reason, when in a relationship, to be going out with people of the opposite sex anyway.
2006-11-14 02:46:39 · answer #3 · answered by travelguruette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, both of you are wrong.
He shouldn't think he can lay down the law.
and you can't just decide one day to hang out with guys.
its something you discuss in the beginning
you can't change the rules in the middle.
You should have said no to him he couldn't be friends with the ladies right from the start and if he disagreed then you work out an arrangement.
spite never works.
2006-11-14 02:47:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes an ***. its not wrong to be concerned but trust is an essential parrt of love, so if he didnt trust you than it wouldnt have worked out anyway
2006-11-14 02:47:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u broke up already. he has no right to be jealous...If he go out with other girls do you intervene,, no, right? How selfish he is... Totally dump him.
2006-11-14 02:50:11 · answer #6 · answered by jane u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no he's not right! He's a very insecure and selfish dummy!
2006-11-14 02:45:53 · answer #7 · answered by TruDiva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a guy thing but its not right thing to do.........so you where right to do that
2006-11-14 02:47:39 · answer #8 · answered by NOT IN USE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋