ok, my ex and i r still talking, last night he told me that he thought that maybe we would get back together, then he told me that he thought i was hot, then he said that we could be freinds with beifits i want to but i have a boy friend, we love each other. but i never get to see him. do u think my ex ment it or dou think he wants sex?
2006-11-14 02:40:47 · 34 answers · asked by psychopathic bi*ch. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So let me get this straight. You want to know if you should dump your boyfriend for some other guy that specifically states that he just wants to get together with you for sex.... hmm..... what to do, what to do.
I think you should do your present boyfreind a favor and dump him. You obviously don't love him or have much commitment to him. Then, get together with your ex.
I'll be looking forward to your next question: "Do you think this guy is using me just for sex." I'll answer that one now.... 'YES!"
2006-11-14 03:02:48 · answer #1 · answered by Bud 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't really think by the sounds of things your ex is ready for a long term relationship with you. Maybe he just wants you to break up with your bf because he has a problem with the fact you have another now. When he mentioned friend with benefits did that sound like someone ready to commit to someone? You mentioned you love your bf but yet your not acting like it by you thinking of the thoughts of taking your ex back. You first need to decide what to do with the relationship your in with your bf before planning your next step. I'm sure your bf at least deserves this from you.
2006-11-14 02:52:10 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both, I think he meant it and also just wants sex. Most men want what they can't have and right now he really can't have you because you are with someone else. Remember the reasons you broke up. Now if they were reasons that can be reconciled, and you believe the relationship will go forward, ok, if the reasons are still there just in the background, meaning if he's just telling you he's changed and he really hasn't then STOP, don't go back for more pain and lose the one your with in the process. Either way, you need to stop talking to your ex because its deceitful to your current bf or break it off with your current bf to be with your ex. Think how you would feel if the guy you were dating was talking to his ex. Its hurtful and what goes around comes around. It will bite you in the rear.
2006-11-14 02:44:46 · answer #3 · answered by Elvira 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He knows you so he thinks it would be easy to get sex from you. It is a good thing that you can keep talking to your ex.. You have a boy friend If your Ex was a good man why is he ex think it over carefully
Ask your boy friend why you can not see him and if you do want to make a change go for some one new
2006-11-14 02:47:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to say but I think all your ex wants is sex. He said lets be friends with benefits means You be there for him for sex and he can date anyone he wants too. But if you are considering dumping your current boyfriend for your ex for any reason then you need to worry about how much he ( your current boyfriend means to you) Do not just hang on to a guy just so you can say I have a boyfriend. You might just miss the love of your life. I say move on from both of them.
2006-11-14 02:46:48 · answer #5 · answered by eeyoree rocks2003 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess all ur ex wanted was sex. If he really love u and hope to get back with u, he wouldn't use the word hot. A guy who really loves u will say u r pretty in any way or use his sincerity to get u back.
And the phrase "friends with benefits" dun sound like he has a gd intention.
Even if u dun get to see ur bf, i dun tink u shld get back wif ur ex. There's always better guys out there :)
2006-11-14 02:49:41 · answer #6 · answered by summer87_sln 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At your age, it really doesn't matter, and yes all he is after is sex. He can't have you now so he wants you. Go back with him or have sex with him and he wont want you anymore. Look for someone who can be with you without you having sex. Always, Always hesitate to have sex at your age. I dated a girl in high school for three years without having sex. We could be intiment without having sex and it was special. I stayed with her because of two reasons. One, because I absolutly loved her, and two because I had total respect for her. It was her choice not to have sex and I respect that. That is special. Thirty years later I have married a different lady and we have a wonderful relationship, but that high school relationship is still special for me today. Keep sex for someone really special. You will never regret it. Again, find a boy you can spend time with and do things with.
2006-11-14 02:59:29 · answer #7 · answered by Ricky: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He gave you your answer. He wants "friends with benefits". unless thats what you want then don't do it.
If he were serious think why you broke up for a reason the first time? Unless you both have changed sufficiently that you won't break up again for the same reason then whats the point?
2006-11-14 02:55:17 · answer #8 · answered by dirkthesmirk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ex wants sex,you say you and your boyfriend love each other but are thinking of this,what does that say.
2006-11-14 02:45:38 · answer #9 · answered by fairyb04 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
he wants to have sex with you. listen to his words. Why can't people listen? He said you were hot and then he said that you should be a friend with benefits. You have a boyfriend so why would you consider being with him again anyway. You guys broke up for a reason. Is it perhaps this guy is incredibly indecisive and can't make up his mind? Let him be and enjoy your current boyfriend.
2006-11-14 02:43:59 · answer #10 · answered by tonaloha 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋