he says he didn't leave me but did't contact me for some weeks after we had a fight. i took it as a separation. he says it was'nt. do i believe him?
2006-11-14 02:39:34 · 8 answers · asked by vilasha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I feel for you. this happened to me. I did not hear from him for like 2 1/2 weeks and out of the blue he calls apologising, he doesn't know why he didn't call, etc...ok..we start kicking it again and then we had a slight disagreement and he has done it again. not quite sure what's up with your man but maybe he can't deal with confrontations and he'd rather just walk then deal with it. Do you really want to be with someone who is capable of walking away without a thought and re contact you when he feels like it? This is no way to lead a life with your significant other. Take a step back and really think about this one. You could be heading for alot of unecesary drama and heartaches.
2006-11-14 02:53:22 · answer #1 · answered by tonaloha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why didn't you call him during this time period?
It sounds like you two are playing a power game. You both think that if you call the other first you are somehow 'giving in'. You two need to sit down together to decide if you really should be a couple, because these sort of games will only get worse the longer you are together.
2006-11-14 02:46:43 · answer #2 · answered by Wundt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its kinda simple unless hes a complicated guy. He probobly dosent like u or he wants to move on but wants to take you with him. Or possibly hes with some1 else and having a complicated time chosing you or her. It might need time or you might want to talk to him to make sure hes ok. And if you have to go really low and look at his phone and see if hes contacting other ladies.
2006-11-14 02:45:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yea i think you should reconsider it and think about him i mean sumtimes ppl need time and i know it sounds like alot but honestly give they guy 1 more chance to see how he feels about you i mean hang out with him and determine it all on that and question him too and stuff if u got those feelings like you do when ur around him ill take that as a good sign goodluck...
2006-11-14 02:42:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust your guy, he just want to know if you miss him
2006-11-14 02:48:55 · answer #5 · answered by kyute 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was a breakup.
2006-11-14 02:42:56 · answer #6 · answered by me2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he ment as it to be over.
2006-11-14 02:41:57 · answer #7 · answered by psychopathic bi*ch. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hees denying it=]
2006-11-14 02:45:00 · answer #8 · answered by kathy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋