MY BOY FRIEND OF 8 YEARS IS NOT THAT SEXUAL ANY MORE .WE BOTH HAVE BEEN THROUGH SO MUCH DRUGS CHEETING THE WHOLE 9 YARDS. NOW THAT WE ARE CLEAN WE HARDLEY EVER HAVE SEX .HE SAYS HES SCARED I WILL GET PREGNANT .WE HAVE 2 KIDS ALREADY .I FIND THAT TO BE A BUNK EXCUSE WHAT ABOUT YOU? I miss it very much
2006-11-14 02:36:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know someone that is in the exact same situation as you and it sucks for her too. since getting pregnant is his big worry -tell him you are getting on birth control -if there is no sex after getting on birth control -there is obviuosly something else wrong-my friend's husband had to start using viagra after getting off drugs -because drugs messed up his sex drive and it took her forever to get that he had a problem with a erection for months-becuase it was embarrsing to him -all you can do is ask and if that still does not work you should find someone who wants to give it up to you
2006-11-14 02:49:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right, that is a bunk excuse in this age of condoms and the pill. Besides, you can have sex without having intercourse. Use your imagination. ;-) Or try some of the links below.
I think the real question is: are you two still intimate? This may sound corny, but do you still hold hands when you walk, kiss/hug each other for no reason, tell you love each other (w/o expecting the return love reply), do some heavy petting? These small intimate moments can help add up to sexual desire.
Congratulations on raising two kids, because that is a full time job in itself. But do you two take time for yourselves without the kids? Like go on a date (without the kids - a real date and not just a bite at Taco Bell) once or twice a month? What are you two doing to feed that sexual fire? I have read, in psychology journals, that most marriages end with the first child, because the parents focus all their efforts and attention on raising their child. They neglect the little things that keep the marriage going, like taking care of each other. The parents fail to see that taking care of their marriage is helping to raise their child, by modeling for their child on how a keep a good marriage. Hence, I am not saying to ignore your children, just to also take care of each other.
2006-11-14 03:21:15 · answer #2 · answered by GP04G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something has to be done before things go out of hands. You either help him out of this problem, if he'll co-operate with you - or else you look elsewhere, which I think should be the last option. But a young gurl like you can't just sit down there for eternity, being sex hungry and sex starved continually. But I won't support a pity ffuck, not in the least, cos it lacks fulfilment and required satisfaction. Contact me through my profile for further discussions. cya soon.
2006-11-14 02:46:02 · answer #3 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
each and each and every courting is diverse yet to maximum it would want to be a million of the numerous major parts to it in a lengthy time period one. Many depending factors are age, how lengthy they have honestly been seeing one yet another, beliefs, ailment etc. So there are exceptions.
2016-11-29 03:23:12 · answer #4 · answered by boshell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has lost his sex drive or he needs Viagra.
2006-11-14 02:38:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to put the moves on him, and HARD. get him stimulated and alla that good stuff. he should wanna have sex with u in no time
2006-11-14 02:40:07 · answer #6 · answered by sh8dybrady120 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
porn, they don't need us, they need their hard cold lonely computer. but what if we aren't happy, do they care, NO.
they only care about themselves.
2006-11-14 02:42:10 · answer #7 · answered by 9888khgd6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋