The thing people say to me the most is why are you single, your so beautiful? I am in my 20s and I am nice, fun ect, but i am always the single one out of my friends.
I never get the boyfriends. I meet guys and they just wonder why i don t already have a guy. I think they like me, but they never go any further. not even just casual sex!
I have asked people I know but they just say its because i havent found the right person. I am not looking for someone perfect at all and am really not fussy.
What am I doing wrong?
2006-11-14 02:34:14 · 36 answers · asked by Bubbles 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey!i'm exactly the same!we should start a club together cuz we're not the only ones!
well in my case i guess it's because deep down inside i just don't wanna be in a relationship,i'm better off single
in your case,i can't tell!but it's really annoying when people tell you it's because you havn't found the right person yet!
maybe you don't try hard enough to get to know the boys you meet or keep in touch with them...
or maybe guys can feel you're kind of afraid they'd run away from you and they don't like that...
2006-11-14 02:40:31 · answer #1 · answered by Billie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I notice that you said that when you meet guys 'they never go any further'. You said yourself that you are beautiful and not fussy, maybe guys are just a little intimidated by you. They may also wrongfully assume that you have chosen to be single. In a situation like this you have to take the reigns, if you see a guy that you like rather than waiting for him to make a move you make the first move. Chances are he will be so shocked that you are actually interested in him that he will jump at the first indication of interest that you give him. Good luck on your quest!!!!!
2006-11-14 02:49:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there something about your personality that you do not see as a flaw that just turns all guys off..
It seems like the only reason that could exist, because you mentioned all of your good points and the fact that you are not picky..
Or, do you just seem completly unapproachable?
Try just going out without the goal of meeting a guy..just set it in your mind your going otu to have fun and be yourself..
your true personality should show this way and you might just have guys falling all over you then..
Other than that, you might want to see a psychologist and get analyzed to get to the root of the problem
2006-11-14 02:39:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You probably are just a little picky not in a negative way but maybe you go after really good looking guys that don't want to be with one girl. However, the nice shy guys are probably intimidated by you. The truth is you haven't met the right guy yet and maybe try to be a little more flirty with the nice guys so they get the hint.
2006-11-14 02:38:51 · answer #4 · answered by Venus 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Intimidation. I have beautiful women ask me for my number and they end up not calling. I give my number to beautiful women and they don't call. Lose - lose. I think its intimidation. I'm also in my 20's, am extremely intelligent, have a high-paying job in DNA patent law, wear nice clothes, formerly trained in Jui Jitsu and Kickboxing. Witty and charming. It just happens.
Bottom line: their loss.
Some beautiful woman is going to be handed the world on a silver platter and it is unfortunately NOT going to be the women who passed me over.
You should have the same mindset. Because quite frankly being single is a lot better than being in a mismatched relationship.
2006-11-14 02:45:12 · answer #5 · answered by Handsome Devil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exactly the same goes for me. I guess we just have to wait for the right guy to come along!!! I know its a cliché but believe me I know exactly what you mean. All my friends have guys too. None of them understand why I don't have a guy, because (apparently) I am gorgeous and a whole lot of fun! You're not doing anything wrong honey. Just hang in there, like I am! :-)
2006-11-14 02:51:32 · answer #6 · answered by guylian_chocolate_seashell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never seen you but people inharantly lie to others so as to not hurt there feelings. There could be a multitude of reasons: Are you overbearing? Do you make a lot of money? Are you a nag? Are you too fun? These are all questions you need to ask yourself. Most guys will go out with almost any girl but it usually only takes me one date to figure out what type of girl someone is. Did they use their bread to eat the rest of the spagehtti sauce? What did she say about her parents? How many times did she answer her cell phone when we were eating? etc.
Guys are driven by one thing......ego's....pump up a guys ego and you will have him around for awhile...
2006-11-14 02:37:49 · answer #7 · answered by magicjackcollins 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
nothing, just be a little more forward!
most nice guys are a bit shy so if u think he likes you then suggest u go for a drink, or tell him he can buy you a drink even if he doesnt ask. most men, i think, would like a woman to make the first move, because it jsut doent happen often so when it does they are very happy. and hell if you jsut want casual sex find a niceish guy and tell him hes coming home with you, be a little forceful. men like that!
2006-11-14 02:37:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
flirting is the key if u like a guy talk to him ask him what he likes to do find a common ground maybe the guys who like u are imtimidated by the fact u are pretty guys need a push now and again ask a guy if he would like to go see a film thats a good start then flirt while u go out
2006-11-14 02:49:20 · answer #9 · answered by spec_007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pretty, young, single, and not really fussy.......
well i dont think you'll be on ya tod for very long if you keep postin q's like this love!!
lol
you sound perfect.
guys can be intimidated by good looking girls.its the old "She'd never go for me" type problem im afraid.
Just hang in there sweetheart it'll happen.just be you and someone will appear.
Good luk
2006-11-14 02:41:22 · answer #10 · answered by aberdeen302004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋