In your opinion....do you think that someone 13 and someone 19 should be boyfriend and girlfriend??? Also what if the relationship is not intimate I mean nothing beyond a kiss!!! What do you think???
2006-11-14 02:30:49 · 27 answers · asked by Lady family 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most will say it is wrong but I say it depends on the mentality of the younger person. Also as long as nothing sexual is being done it shouldn't be looked down apon. I mean it sounds bad at that age but people older are always dating more than a 6 yr span between the two.
2006-11-14 02:34:23 · answer #1 · answered by andyramvzb 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
This may sound like your mom, but my response is an absolute NO. The reason for this is at 19 he is an adult and has had much more experience than someone 13. In most states, he could be arrested and sent to prison for "statutory rape" if anything more than kissing happens. The more likely motive for someone that much older wanting to be with a 13 year old is the guy is a pervert and if you aren't careful, you could wind up a dead static to law enforcement. Stay far away from this guy!
2006-11-14 10:37:05 · answer #2 · answered by c.s. 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What business would a 19 year old have with a 13 year old? Is he unable to make any relationships with females his own age? Hon, that's just creepy. You may think that he has honorable intentions - but that's borderline pedophilia and he could (and should) go to JAIL for it. A 19 year old who wants to date a 13 year old is BAD NEWS.......dear - value yourself and all you have to offer.....do you really want to give it up to an older guy? You don't have to be a genius to know what 19 year old boys are after....and it's not just a kiss. Respect yourself. Respect yourself. RESPECT YOURSELF! I understand that you may feel the need to be loved and enjoy the attention and status that having an older boyfriend may get you - but in the long run, you'll get the attention for all of the WRONG reasons....if you catch my drift.
2006-11-14 10:39:58 · answer #3 · answered by Jeniphish 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It may only be kissing now but trust me a 19 year old guy is a walking hormone and that will not be enough. In time he will start pressuring you and you are sooo young and impressionable things will happen. I think the age difference is to much because you are 13. Look him up when you are 18 and he is 24. Then it will be a nice match.
2006-11-14 10:36:29 · answer #4 · answered by trixinator 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I do think that it is a bad idea to date someone that is 13 and you are 19. That is just be wrong. You should not even be thinking about haveing sex with a 13 year old. It is just wrong.
2006-11-14 10:48:25 · answer #5 · answered by Hot Momma 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
13 is too young to be with someone who is 19. You shouldn't even be thinking about kissing. enjoy your youth and be a kid before it passes you. You have plenty of time for boys. I'd say when you get about 16 is when you should start thinking about these things.
2006-11-14 10:34:23 · answer #6 · answered by tonaloha 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
A 19 yo with a 13 yo is in danger of becoming a felon...
2006-11-14 10:39:07 · answer #7 · answered by Axeman 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A 19yr olds perception of 'dating' and a 13 yr olds is vastly different. not only is the 19 yr old more sexually mature and aware, but their ability to manipulate a 13 yr old is astounding... You only understand when you're 19.
2006-11-14 10:36:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
A 19 yr old with a 13 yr old needs a good asskicking
2006-11-14 10:32:23 · answer #9 · answered by . 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Bad idea. I'm surprised the friends of the 19 y/o haven't kicked his *** for being weird. If he doesn't have any friends that would have kicked his *** for being weird, he has no friends and the 13 y/o should be worried about this guy.
2006-11-14 10:34:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋