I'm 19 going on 20 and she's 26. Anybody seeing a problem with me trying to go forward with this?
2006-11-14 02:10:12 · 38 answers · asked by GoneForGood 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it not matter as long you turly loved her and happy to be with her and that people will see iy not matters.. good luck
2006-11-14 02:11:38 · answer #1 · answered by SimileyDaisy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there isn't a problem with your ages. If you were 15 and she was 26, then that would be a problem. But you are both adults and so you are able to make whatever choices you want to make. My ex was 6 years older than me. And my current boyfriend is 3 years younger than me. As long as you have things in common and you enjoy each others company, then there really is no problem.
2006-11-14 02:19:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 24 and I would never think of dating a 19 or 20 year old guy. I personally have nothing in common with someone of that age - even though it is not a large difference, you're just at different places in your life. If she is 26 and she is at the same place in her life as you, a 19 year old, that's bad. Every girl I have ever known who has done that has done it for one reason . . . they're young and they're trainable.
2006-11-14 02:12:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I don't see a problem with this, unless all you are looking for is a roll in the sack. A woman of 26 is usually looking for a stable relationship with a man she may want to marry in the future. So as long as y'all have the same goals their won't be a problem, some 26 year old woman only want sex too.
2006-11-14 02:16:41 · answer #4 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - if you were 14 and she was 20, then there would be a problem, but as we get older age gaps become less of an issue. At this point in your lives you may have similar, ideas, interests, values and be looking for the same kind of things in a relationship. Don't over analyse the age thing and just enjoy it while it's there.
Lx
2006-11-14 02:14:09 · answer #5 · answered by Lauren A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I see a problem.... not because she is a 7 years older than you, but if you were older than 19 could be ok, but 19 years old I think you are immature yet for a 26 years old.... I don't think it will work. Good luck.
2006-11-14 02:14:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure you can go on a date with her. When I was 24 I dated a 18 year old a few times, it turned out not to be comfortable as we did not have enough in common.
Rememer at 20 you should be dating and not being tied to one person. You have many years ahead of you to be in a relationship.
2006-11-14 02:14:45 · answer #7 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all, i was 17 and my girlfriend was 4 and it seemed to work out alright, the hardest part was getting through Pre-School, the best part of it was she was a cheap date and had an early bed time so i could still do the things i enjoyed! id say go for it, you only live once you might as well have a hoot'n holler'n good time
2006-11-14 02:23:56 · answer #8 · answered by Salad Tosser 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-14 06:58:38 · answer #9 · answered by pfarr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An age difference of 7 years is nothing to be concerned about.
2006-11-14 02:12:02 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i don't see any problems. you are both legal ages..and it's only 6-7 years difference. it's not like she's 70 and you are 20. if you are both around the same maturity level mentally and you are compatable then why not??
2006-11-14 02:12:30 · answer #11 · answered by jamie_0778 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋