white or black guys?

Question

Well just asking this question coz all my life i have has five relationshipes and it's only been with black guys and coming from a mixed race home my mom is white and my dad is black.none of my relationshipes ever work because i just feel they are too insensivve and don't expresses their feelings.am wondering now if it will be better to be with a white guy coz i hear they are not that autoritative and traditional about things.what do you guys think about it?

Answer 1

Find yourself a good man, don't worry about what color his skin is. You should never rule somebody out based on race. Live your life, put yourself in a position to meet new people, flirt a bit with those you find interesting or attractive, and just let good things happen.

Answer 2

That's not necessarily so. Certainly can't stereotype either black or white. Its who you are looking for. You obviously lean towards the dominate males...But what you don't realize is there is a difference between dominance and ignorance/disrespect. Its taken me a very long time to distinguish between the two as well. And all my partners have been white, dominant, yet rude and disrespectful. But now I have a very dominant partner who understands a woman has needs and desires and feelings. And respects them and me as an individual. Yet he exudes dominance...total turn on. But he captures attention everywhere he goes because he's genuinely kind.
And no I don't have a problem with interracial couples. I have gone on dates with black men as well. But its just like this black guy told me once, he really liked me but because of the color of my skin he'd never be able to take me home to his momma... at that point I realized it doesn't matter what race you are...Its hard to keep an equal balance between your families beliefs and your desires. Only the strong willed can survive an interracial relationship, when you don't have your families support.

Answer 3

Men Are All Jerks On Differen't Levels. The Goal Is To Find The Right One, Reguardless Of Color. It's All About How The Person Is Rasied.

Answer 4

Why are you so prejudiced against white people that you have dated only black guys? Try dating some white men and find the answer to your question. In truth, there are traditional, authoritative men of all races. The question is not one of race, but of individual personality. Dating is a process of figuring out what you're looking for, and then seeking someone who fits those requirements. You have identified some qualities you want in a partner (sensitivity, emotional expressiveness), so now go find someone who fits the bill.

Answer 5

I don't think it matters whether a guy is black or white, because believe me a guy doesn't have to be a particular race to be insensitive and not expresses their feelings, that is not a colour thing.

If you want to date a white guy then do it, but don't go into a relationship thinking because he's white he's not going to be traditional about things, because you might find that he is. Also you might find that he is also insensitive and he wouldn't express his feelings to you.

Go out with the guy because you like him, because he is funny he has a good personality etc, don't go out with him because he is black or white. Because you have this way of thinking (and don't think me harsh here) have you ever thought that the reason your relationships don't work is down to you

Answer 6

Black guys all the way! I dated white guys when I was younger but never really fancied them much, then I stated dating black guys. Yes I've had my bad experiences, some have been truly awful but nothing would deter me. I knew it wasn't a matter of the colour of their skin, its just that they were horrible men. That's all! Now I've found this really nice guy who is respectful and treats me well.

My sister dates white guys only and she has been with some right pigs, most even worse than the guys I've dated. So the only problem is the guys you date not their skin colour.

Answer 7

It's kind of suprising to hear that a woman coming from a mixed race home can still make racist comments. Do you really think there is that much difference between black and whites to allow you to characterize their entire races the way you just did?

I personally blast many racial stereotypes out of the water. I am a white guy who is good at basketball (race: black), was a janitor for three years (country: Mexico), currently writes computer software (race: Asian), enjoyes smoking certain herbal substances (race: American Indian), and I am very well hung (country: Italian). Go figure!

Answer 8

You cannot generalize like that all men are different black, or white....white men can also be intrusive...i have been with black men and they were just fine, they are just a little more upfront that's all, and i don't know which black guys you've encountered but the ones i met were very capable of expressing their feelings......but if you feel you cant deal with a black guy that's your decision to make at the end of the day.

Answer 9

It really doesn't matter what ethnicity a man is because there are insensitive white man as well. Jerks are jerks regardless of there color so if you want to date a white man solely because you feel the grass will be greener on the other side take a minute and think about all the women who have been hurt by a insensitive white man

Answer 10

I'm surprised you're looking at colour and putting people into categories. You of all people should know better. As far as I'm concerned you need to go beyond skin colour and stereotype and look at the person within. In all races you have good and bad. No one can say one race is better than the other. So don't judge a book by the cover; read it!