2006-11-14 01:57:12 · 17 answers · asked by tonyhawk_2500 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe because you are trying too hard. It sounds like you might be.
Trying to be someone you aren't comes across as a fake, like you are trying to hide who you really are.
Putting too much effort into impressing them comes across as desperate, like you can't find a girl so you will do anything to get one.
Being too nice is actually a sign of an abuser, he's hooks the girl with his perfect behavior then shows his true colors when she's fallen for him.
Stop trying so hard. Be yourself. And don't look for a girl based on her appearance. If you want a girl to be interested in you, then you need to find one who shares your hobbies, likes, and dislikes. The prom queen isn't always the best choice :-)
Hang out where you like to go, do the things you like to do, and talk to the girls at those places.
If she's at the skate park, then she's in a good location to know that you two could get along. (Just guessing by your id.) If she's at the pep rally, then she may not want to do the things you want to do.
2006-11-14 02:05:19 · answer #1 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? A lot of the middle school and high school girls do not like the guys who treat them well. This is not to say that you should act like a jerk, because then that attitiude will come back and bite you. Dont try so hard. Do things you like to do, as far as social clubs, whatever. If you enjoy being "you" then you will shine, and girls will begin to look your way.
But there is something else you should ask yourself. Is it that "no girl" will be interested in you, or just the popular ones? Are you playing the same game the girls are, and showing no interest in certain girls? I'll bet if you looked around you'd find there is someone interested in you, but the question is, would you also be interested in that person? (such as, the girl who no one looks 2 times at)
2006-11-14 10:06:08 · answer #2 · answered by moonshadow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is kind of sad but usually women don't start to be attracted to nice guys until they hit 30 or so. Nice guys finish last. A lot of women like charismatic men or "bad boys"... wait until they get screwed over by a few losers, then they will start sniffing around your door. Stay nice. All of a sudden if they see that you have a good job, save some money, drive a solid car, and are not full of yourself, you are going to be so damn hot! Just wait them out!
2006-11-14 10:02:03 · answer #3 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try so hard. Women seem to go for the bad boys, men that ignore, them, treat them poorly. Though they say they want a "nice" guy. Hang in there, they are missing out if they don't wake up to what sounds like a great guy.
2006-11-14 10:02:31 · answer #4 · answered by nanny4hap 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on 1) your personality and 2) the girls personality its not only you you you doing things wrong or anything its just that the girl or girls just dont find you there "type" just go out to a place were you love to hang and try to find someone with a common interest their the first step in a god friendship or relationship is a common ground
2006-11-14 10:03:23 · answer #5 · answered by tanyamarie23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice is good and fine, but as long as your "nice everything you can think of" is not seen as weak. Weakness is a huge turnoff for many girls. They (most) are attracted to strength, confidence and independence. That does not mean you have to be ugly, mean or rotten, but do not let your nice be seen as weak.
2006-11-14 10:03:13 · answer #6 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have 2 sons.One tries to be the super nice guy to girls.He follows them around and makes himself very much available.The other one acts like he could care less.Guess who the girls cling to?Yes,the one who isn't following them around and being nice all the time.Don't make yourself available and play a little hard to get.Ladies like a little bit of a chase!!
2006-11-14 10:07:40 · answer #7 · answered by iluvsunsets 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is where looking at the vibes you are sending out come in handy. Are you a complainer. or a whiner, or a "poor me" person ? Sending out positive and happy vibes will return the same to you, do you smile and say hello to people or do you just have a sulky expression.
2006-11-14 10:02:06 · answer #8 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to be a bit more manly how about me and you talk you can call me if you like #(830) 334-9181 might need a 1 at the beging call around 5:00 if you like names Kendra
2006-11-14 10:06:42 · answer #9 · answered by sexy_happy_gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most girls don't like guys that are overly nice, in my opinion. Sometimes you have to mix it up a bit in order to get them to notice you.
2006-11-14 10:07:29 · answer #10 · answered by ludacrusher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋