he is a guy from the gym and i see him most days so i dont want to look like a 1st class idiot!
2006-11-14 01:55:36 · 10 answers · asked by Lady B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"Without looking the fool"...
If you are honest and forthright... you will not look a fool...
2006-11-14 01:56:54 · answer #1 · answered by jonti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you make sure that you use the equipment next to him and when you see him make sure that you smile and say hello. Sometimes even ask him about his programme and ask him for advice about yours. Then ask him out for a drink, however before you do this have you checked that there is no signs of a wedding ring, very important. Because there was a guy that I know and he usually takes off his wedding ring when he goes to the gym, he says it's because he finds it difficult to work out with his ring on. Once you go out for a drink with him suss out his personality and hopefully the two of you can start working out together and then after a while you can find out what he thinks of you
2006-11-14 10:03:15 · answer #2 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get speaking to him and read the signs ask for his help on how best to push yourself in the gym if he seems open just ask him out some men don't take gentle hints go for the direct approach you can always change gyms, good luck
2006-11-14 09:59:33 · answer #3 · answered by jamie k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately watch the episode of Seinfeld that concerns this very issue. You will learn some things from it. Good life lesson in it, too.
2006-11-14 09:56:57 · answer #4 · answered by Danny G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him you won't look like a fool, don't go up and say i like you just try to talk him for a drink and if he says no then you know and move on.
2006-11-14 09:57:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as your confident and know you would feel better doing it then just go up to that person and ask.. no one is going to make or poke fun at you though if you do it in a more seculuded location were you can talk without being interupted
2006-11-14 09:59:16 · answer #6 · answered by tanyamarie23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by saying hi, then small talk, try asking him out for coffee. You are not a fool, no matter what, if he says no, his loss.
2006-11-14 09:58:10 · answer #7 · answered by nanny4hap 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For all you know, he may be married. Then you will look like an idiot.
2006-11-14 09:56:56 · answer #8 · answered by Pinolera 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you get on just say something like why isnt every man like you?
maybe we could go out for a drink sometime
2006-11-14 09:58:23 · answer #9 · answered by emma c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start talking to him after a while ask him if he Fancie a drink
2006-11-14 09:59:04 · answer #10 · answered by debbie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋