Here is a bit background on us, we have been together for a while in aspect of friendship. Now, she wants to take our friendship to the next level -- dating. In the past, she told me that she wants me and long story short, she dumped me like I'm a yesterday news. She said she did it because of her so-called "confused feeling" between me and her husband. Now, I have been hurt twice by this woman and should I go for it? She said she won't hurt me again but my friends told me to not mess around with a married lady.
2006-11-14 01:55:24 · 15 answers · asked by Full-Grown Crying Man w/keyboard 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't make yourself available to someone who is physically and emotionally unable to be with you because of a marriage. I know it will be hard, but I suggest that you be firm with this woman and let her know you can no longer continue to see her while she is married. This will free you from obligation as well as jolt her into realizing that if she really wants to be with you, she will take the correct steps to make that happen.
2006-11-14 01:59:26 · answer #1 · answered by cudancegirl1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a point in life when you have to weigh your pros and cons. 1. She is married. 2. She hurt you already with "Confused feelings". Why would you want to go through that for the rest of your life anyway? Think about it. Definitely tell her to get a divorce first so you can be with her and not her and her husband.
2006-11-14 09:59:49 · answer #2 · answered by Manna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one, you dont mess around with a married woman, because that goes to show you something! If she messes around on him with you, how do you know that she wont mess around on you with him! Not only that, but being friends is acceptable, but if she wants to be with you and she is married, you need to stop talking to her and leave it alone! You said you tried dating before and she broke your heart, well she will probably do it again because she has you right where she wants you! If her and her husband is not getting a divorce the best thing to do is tell her to be faithful to her husband, because you dont want to be the reason that they get a divorce! So maybe you should reconsider on being with her and let her be with her husband!!
2006-11-14 10:00:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she is married, so that right there should tell you stay away. And, she wants what she can't have, when she has you, then she won't want you. She will never leave her husband for you, no matter what she says. So quit torturing yourself and dump her like a big stinky turd.
2006-11-14 09:58:51 · answer #4 · answered by Flower Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think that you really have a chance w/her and you believe her you should go for it....if you think that she is just playing ya and having you on the side for a side dish...maybe you shouldnt try anything w/her anymore....if you have always liked her maybe you should have told her before she got married and maybe it woulda been u two together.
2006-11-14 10:13:29 · answer #5 · answered by sweet mint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a conceited prig .What made you think that she will toss her husband for you.Are you better than him?You had you little thing,you are lucky to get so far.Now you are hurt because she knows her husband is better than you and that is the person she wants.Boo-hoo-hoo.
2006-11-14 10:02:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if shes marrried that means shes cheating and if thats the case that means shes bored with her husband and will probably get bored with you to once a cheater always a cheater sorry but id find someone whos not married
2006-11-14 10:00:41 · answer #7 · answered by sarah c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
than your not a full grown male.go for 3 maybe eventually you will learn before your life runs out on you. good luck
2006-11-14 09:59:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her if she wants to date you to get a divorce first.
2006-11-14 09:56:52 · answer #9 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
hey dude, you're just the side dish. If you're comfortable with that then no problem. If you're not, move on.
2006-11-14 10:00:34 · answer #10 · answered by Admiral 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋