he claims that he doesn't want a serious relationship and that he was getting too attached to me. should i believe him? seriously though guys if u're not sure about how u feel don't **** ur girlfriend!!
2006-11-14 01:16:00 · 10 answers · asked by Phoebe 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He knew exactly how he felt and he knew what he wanted. He didn't see you as a person he saw whats between your legs. Next time tell the guy that you aren't giving anything up unless he is absolutely totally seriously committed to you. Make him wait. If he genuinely loves you he'll stay around.
2006-11-14 01:23:48 · answer #1 · answered by dirkthesmirk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he just wanted to "hit it" and go. Many men work that way. Virgin or not. Sounds like the young lady got the "letter treatment" - Lick it, stick it, and send it on its way. Hopefully she didn't get pregnant or catch a disease. Hopefully she will be more selective about who she sleeps with in the future.
2006-11-14 01:21:10 · answer #2 · answered by s_bodhi 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when a cat chases a mouse and catches it, it doesn't necessarily mean he wants to eat it. Just catching it is where the fun lies. Now that the chase is over, tell me where the fun is. It's on to the next mouse.
2006-11-14 01:28:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gave up your virginity to this guy, so now he can go around bragging about it and then use the dumb excuse that he is getting to attached to you. Chalk it up to experience and be smarter the next time!
2006-11-14 01:21:29 · answer #4 · answered by Gerry 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is for the girl to explain more than the man. Why did she surrender herself without thinking about the long term effect thereof?
2006-11-14 01:20:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
BECAUSE HE'S A JERK AND ALL HE WANTED WAS SEX!
HE COULD'VE TOLD U HE DIDN'T WANT A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP BEFOREHAND, AND LET U MAKE THE DECISION WETHER OR NOT 2 HAVE SEX WITH HIM.
HE'S JUST AN BIG JERK!
HOLD UR HEAD UP, AND SHOW HIM THAT UR O.K.
2006-11-14 01:23:38 · answer #6 · answered by black butterfly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he feels guilty. Maybe he's immature. Or maybe he's just a jerk. It would help to know how long you were together.
2006-11-14 01:22:18 · answer #7 · answered by Beth T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wanted to 'pop the cherry'?
2006-11-14 01:19:04 · answer #8 · answered by babs49242 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
he is a jerk --- he was only after the sex --- im sorry
2006-11-14 01:22:08 · answer #9 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ya beleive him n realise it.he just played.forget him n wat heppend n move forward.
2006-11-14 01:21:11 · answer #10 · answered by sa79 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋