I got with a girl and she turned out to be VERY hairy...on her back, legs, stomach and elsewhere... I was freaked out and I don't know what to do... I have only just met her, so should I try and talk it out with her or move on? She also sucks at kissing as well, so should I just call it quits, and chalk it up to experience?
2006-11-14 00:59:57 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Call it a day while it is easy enough to do it.
2006-11-14 01:02:42 · answer #1 · answered by T - C - B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure this is something to "talk out with her." If you can't accept her for who she is you should probably move on. The reason she's no good at kissing may be that she's inexperienced and that could be for the very reason you describe - maybe other people have been put off too.
So you have two choices - let her down like the last person probably did, or help build her confidence a little by hanging in there. Bear in mind that you didn't know she was hairy at first, so something else presumably attracted you to her. And if you do get to know her better you may be able to broach the subject comfortably.
Either way, be nice dude.
2006-11-14 09:08:27 · answer #2 · answered by frenziedmonkey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just chalk it up to experience and "nicely" let her go. You just met her and u have no ties with her, but there is obviously no future for the 2 of u when u feel this way. You don't need to offend her or embarrass her by talking about the issue.
2006-11-14 09:06:59 · answer #3 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, mate, i think you better be off, but tell her in a polite manner, I don't see that you two get along well at all, therefore my advice is if you really love her then don't go for the appearance's, For me appearance is not a big thing as long as she has a good persnality and can be a good friend for life, thats all matters for me,
I would like to remind you that there are some people born with similar conditions, where there is some men who had their sex changed, so be carefull!
2006-11-14 09:30:43 · answer #4 · answered by senaka76 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on fast. The last thing you want is for Hairy Mary to get attached and be following you everywhere leaving a trail as she goes. (Did you check for a tail?)
2006-11-14 09:08:19 · answer #5 · answered by Label Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should break it off with her. She deserves someone who loves her for the woman she is and not someone who wants to date a hairless pre-pubescent little girl.
Presumably the person the truly loves her would enjoy the way she kisses too and you are standing between her and her destiny at the moment.
2006-11-14 09:35:27 · answer #6 · answered by Leapling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know if you don't even like her kissing you then forget about it. You can't change people, remember that and know it!!! If it was that she was perfect besides the hair then you could honestly talk to her about shaving or laser treatment to remove the hair but if it's just not working fo ryou now then it won't later on...forget about it!!!
2006-11-14 09:14:33 · answer #7 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say call it quits.
I personally like my women to look like women, with some hair.
But bad kissing! That is unacceptable.
Let her down easy now or it will be more difficult later.
That being said, when she newly available maybe you could drop her my email or yahoo IM
Thanks man!
2006-11-14 22:16:04 · answer #8 · answered by mattnocal7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends if you really like her...obvously you do otherwise you wouldnt be on here asking.I would try talking to her but diplomatically either that or write her a letter explaining it all...she might not have realised
2006-11-14 09:06:37 · answer #9 · answered by Clare B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes call it quits but in a nice way, shes probably really sweet, but whos to say that your Brad Pitt...
2006-11-14 09:03:05 · answer #10 · answered by clicky j 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
erm..its important to be physically attracted to someone...but looks aint everything!!maybe just talk to her in a subtle way..like come out with...so do you wax or shave??i heard waxing is painful etc etc and if she says she does neither then walk out that door and say you was not looking for a german girlfriend!!xx
2006-11-14 09:07:44 · answer #11 · answered by Lydia K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋