same stroy i like this guy he liked me and we were cool until yesterday i got a yahoo messege from him saying:like karla a lot and well yeah i wanna be with her and well im gonna go for it because I want her im sorry im telling you this because i don't want you to get jealous or anything, i like you both but i just want her right now and well she is one of the reasons i been depressed cause well it's my fault but now im gonna go for her when it is the right time. Now i wrote him a note saying:I wont give you the drama you like her you like her its easy as that dont say sorry to me its useless like i said sorry is another word for forgiveness do what you want make the choices you want its your life you know what your doing and in the end i hope it turns out the way you want it. I really do so im going to add in the meantime i need time away from you is this good?
2006-11-14 00:43:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thank you everybody you guys put a smile on my face:)
2006-11-14 00:52:49 · update #1
very good. very mature too!
Make sure you stick with it now though....don't chase him. It may be hard, but find other things (a new guy ??=) to keep you busy....I'm glad he was honest with you. At least you know you can trust him!!
Maybe this time apart will help him to see that you are really the girl for him...if not, its good you know now so that you can start dating some other fabulous guy :)
Be proud of the answer you gave him...it shows great maturity and respect for YOURSELF and him!
2006-11-14 00:48:38 · answer #1 · answered by Shakira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look this is really a good thing for you right now. It is a "red" flag, which tells you a little about his demeanor or character. Noone wants to be a second fiddle. Look let him go, you sound like you deserve better than this. Trust me there is someone out there who will treat you like the only fiddle, instead of second fiddle. Then one day he will realise that he made a mistake by letting you go, and by then of course it will be too late. You will be fine, just stop calling and no communication whatsoever. This is the best way to deal with this drama. The more you are away from him the easier it will be for you to deal with this. Find someone else and keep going forward. You will be fine.
2006-11-14 08:52:15 · answer #2 · answered by Rooster 1972 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him be and just be his friend. Let him be with this girl and you move on with your life. It was big of you to tell him you hope the best for him. That would be the only right thing to do. Find yourself another guy,,or just stay single...thats always a good option yanno? Concentrate on your school work and be the best that you can be. You did the right thing,,,no worries.
2006-11-14 08:48:56 · answer #3 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Girl, you get up shake your self off, and say to your he lose
now let it be, and love will find you. Its just going to be hard to not think of him but keep busy,
You are the better person,
2006-11-14 09:11:17 · answer #4 · answered by shayhi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup. If that's how you really feel about the situation then it's cool. But at least he was strong enough to be honest with you. And you were tough enough to say something straightforward like that. Just be honest with yourself. =)
2006-11-14 08:50:37 · answer #5 · answered by eedee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you did the right thing ,let him go if he wants to go.
2006-11-14 08:53:22 · answer #6 · answered by Demmy A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋