Alright this year my parents found out that im having sex, now they didnt catch me somebody told them. But now my parents act like they cant trust me leaving out or me going to my cousin house. Im on a dirt road and its all family except for 2 so its 8 houses some trailers and some houses. So now they think every time i leave the house that im going to have sex. Every time my mom gotta work and my dad be at home he always got to say something to say about it. IT'S NOT FAIR!!!! WHY DO THEY DO ME LIKE THIS!!! its been about 5 months ago might be more, and their still talking about it. Why are they talking about it? Any advice or suggestions?
2006-11-14 00:42:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Suggest to them that you can wear a chastity belt and they hold the key? That would leave them worry free for sure!
No but seriously, your parents need to just sit down with you and have a nice talk. I think they are in denial about the whole thing and don't know how to handle this situation. I'm guessing you're the only daughter or the first one? Tell them that their behavior is hurting your feelings and that you didn't mean to disappoint them but it happened and there's nothing you can do to change that but that you'll be doing your best to not do it again until your with someone serious.
Good luck!
2006-11-14 01:03:21 · answer #1 · answered by Minouners 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm wondering how old you are? I have a daughter and I found out at 17 she had sex for the first time. I was upset and disappointed, but I didn't become angry at her, instead I sat down with her and expalined why she needs to wait to do this. We had a long talk and it seemed to help. As a parent you only want what is best for your kids, so your parents are probably upset. Once a trust is broken with a child, it takes a long time to repair. The only thing you can do is not break it again. If you have a cell phone, try calling them while you are out and let them know where you are and who you are with. Don't take for granted that when you are out, your parents know whats going on. The more informed you keep them ,the faster the trust will come back. Communication is a BIG thing for parents!
2006-11-14 00:52:10 · answer #2 · answered by Queen B 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
They will eventually thrust you again it takes time but it does go away with time just try to do everything good this time around although it is hard not to have sex once you have before. Good luck hope your parents understand
2006-11-14 01:00:54 · answer #3 · answered by Gina81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
those are the failings you're able to do to re-set up have faith: provide up mendacity. answer all her questions quite, she has a appropriate to comprehend how she's been deceived. do not attempt as much as now, exceedingly not at the back of her back. Admit which you have been a hundred% incorrect as much as now a loser who ended up in detention center at sixteen, and which you chosen badly in all respects (you probably did). do not touch this boy, his buddies, or his kinfolk. those issues ought to help. do not anticipate her to have faith you back in each and every week, nevertheless. we are probably conversing months.
2016-10-22 01:45:24 · answer #4 · answered by wiechmann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are worried. They don't want you to get pregnant. And honey, you will have sex again. Once that barn door has been opened, it doesn't close.
2006-11-14 00:48:44 · answer #5 · answered by sheeny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you disobeyed that trust so now its gone.
it may take time, but youve got to earn that trust back.
good luck, and dont worry itll all work out.
2006-11-14 00:49:06 · answer #6 · answered by Meeowf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once you have sex you dont stop
2006-11-14 00:48:12 · answer #7 · answered by jon h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move out or suck it up
2006-11-14 00:50:53 · answer #8 · answered by erin o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋